Chocolate Sub Diary

This isn’t a cry for the right dom to come sweep me off my feet. This is merely a brief discussion of my search for the past year or so and a mini vent. I have encountered a lot of fake doms and a lot of time wasters (which is nothing new). I realize that doms that want an actual relationship outside of sexy stuff is slim but it is still disheartening. In my personal opinion a strong dom sub relationship is built on top of a semi-normal relationship. I understand some people stay in the lifestyle 24/7. But personally that’s not me. I’m going to school and trying to build a life for myself while also trying to build a relationship/ dom subship with someone. It can be frustrating but it’s rewarding when you find the right fit. That’s all I have to say for the night. Byeee

Everyday when my mind wanders to my sub side, I can’t help but think about the types of people who reach out to me on this site. I’m a lover of all races, genders, and ages, but I find I’m mostly approached by older white males. It gets me thinking about the dynamic between older white males, and younger black females. You could link it to the slavery times, but it also makes me think how hard media influences our choices in partners as black females. I don’t know, maybe I’m rambling, but this is what is on my mind tonight.