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Chocolate Sub Diary

My experience as a African American sub and just my daily weird thoughts.
1 year ago. March 5, 2021 at 9:14 AM

Everyday when my mind wanders to my sub side, I can’t help but think about the types of people who reach out to me on this site. I’m a lover of all races, genders, and ages, but I find I’m mostly approached by older white males. It gets me thinking about the dynamic between older white males, and younger black females. You could link it to the slavery times, but it also makes me think how hard media influences our choices in partners as black females. I don’t know, maybe I’m rambling, but this is what is on my mind tonight.

Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - You may be correct it might be a racial issue of a power thing, older over younger. Might also fall into the forbidden fruit analyze, want what you can't have or society deems unacceptable. May I ask, were you told who was acceptable for you to date or possibly marry as you reached the age to date. Some parents groom their children to stick with their own race, religion, culture, political affiliation, list goes on. We chose who we want based on many things, but I hope love stands at the top of the list from there it's all down hill. Best wishes to you, hope you find what and who you're looking for. 😊
1 year ago
LeashCalledLove​(sub male){__________} - I wonder if the current culture climate is contributing to a renewed interest in racial play/dynamics, maybe as a way to release the tension
1 year ago
Literate Lycan​(dom male) - Probably more just the law of averages, unless these individuals are approaching you with specific play in mind. I don’t know the exact demographics, but it might just be there are a much larger number of older white males who call themselves Dom on the site and they may simply be approaching you because you’ve got a decent profile. And many of them don’t see color, at least not the ones I am knowledgeable of. Just thinking outside the box, but when I initially looked at your profile, I didn’t see you as black but as a sub female (love the nick though). Your Chocolate sub diary does give away your race but not age. Your profile is very engaging considering your profession, your hobbies of reading, anime and videos games as well as watching Supernatural. So in all, unless I was paying specific attention to the title of your blog (and I will admit often I don’t - I should be more observant) your initial profile would be something I might find interesting if I were looking, but not as an older white gentleman looking towards a younger black female. Simply as me looking at your profile. Anyhow, just my thoughts! Good luck in your adventures.
1 year ago

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