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Chocolate Sub Diary

My experience as a African American sub and just my daily weird thoughts.
10 months ago. November 5, 2021 at 6:22 AM

This isn’t a cry for the right dom to come sweep me off my feet. This is merely a brief discussion of my search for the past year or so and a mini vent. I have encountered a lot of fake doms and a lot of time wasters (which is nothing new). I realize that doms that want an actual relationship outside of sexy stuff is slim but it is still disheartening. In my personal opinion a strong dom sub relationship is built on top of a semi-normal relationship. I understand some people stay in the lifestyle 24/7. But personally that’s not me. I’m going to school and trying to build a life for myself while also trying to build a relationship/ dom subship with someone. It can be frustrating but it’s rewarding when you find the right fit. That’s all I have to say for the night. Byeee

CelloCaster​(dom male) - Peace to you
10 months ago
NCarraway​(dom male) - I don't believe in the concept of fate or a perfect partner or 'the one'. I do, however, believe in the concept of the right fit, or rather the good fit for you right now. I've met a lot of people in my local munch and related communities who find stable relationships to get their kink on - sometimes for months or years, sometimes decades. Sometimes it's LTR, sometimes LDR, sometimes poly, sometimes long term play-partners exploring together, sometimes marriage with kids. I have seen all these and more. It can certainly be done and is being done in a myriad of ways. If you have not already reached out to your local community I would encourage you to do that: you will meet real people actually doing this, figuring out how to incorporate their kinks in to their real lives. You will find generally very nice, accepting, people who spend less time behind keyboards. They can be friends and role models at whatever stage you are. Good luck:)
10 months ago

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