Chocolate Sub Diary

CelloCaster​(dom male) - Peace to you

Sirmasterdom​(dom male) - It’s taken me way longer than I’d hoped to find what I call my glove. A sub that I know like the back of my hand & can pease effortlessly & her do the exact same in return. Every bit of us fits perfectly together. The jigsaw is complete. I know everything she needed & loved before we met. No relationship prior although good has come close to this one. It’s out there, she lived in a different country but fortunately moved to mine for a reason she wasn’t sure about. It’s like a magnetic pull. I always tell people to take it slow, get to know each other but all that went out of the window. When you know you know. The only thing to know was her past & where she had been fir all this time. I’m guessing you’re still young. Get on with your life but never stop looking. I’ve found my missing piece at almost thirty eight years old. She’s three years, three months & three days younger than me. Perhaps it’s going to take time for you both to be in the right place at the right time. Never give up on what you want. But know who you want to be & go be that person.

Good luck.

NCarraway​(dom male) - I don't believe in the concept of fate or a perfect partner or 'the one'. I do, however, believe in the concept of the right fit, or rather the good fit for you right now. I've met a lot of people in my local munch and related communities who find stable relationships to get their kink on - sometimes for months or years, sometimes decades. Sometimes it's LTR, sometimes LDR, sometimes poly, sometimes long term play-partners exploring together, sometimes marriage with kids. I have seen all these and more. It can certainly be done and is being done in a myriad of ways. If you have not already reached out to your local community I would encourage you to do that: you will meet real people actually doing this, figuring out how to incorporate their kinks in to their real lives. You will find generally very nice, accepting, people who spend less time behind keyboards. They can be friends and role models at whatever stage you are. Good luck:)