Conflict is inherent in our society and in our nature. However it seems it has gotten so bad that you can't voice your own opinion without offending someone.
When I first got involved in the public side of training slaves I had a new shiny approach..I was so excited that I finally found a place where people wouldn't judge me.
After all why would people judge you for helping people discover who they are.. helped one girl go back and save her marriage, another one discover they were into dollification and encouraged her to pursue the girl she loved in school..
But then the new shiny began to wear off.. some older people began to talked about how fast I was going through partners.. then the judgment came in the form of people at public dungeons not wanting to interact with me.. because they perceived me to be too scary..
The point is judgment exists no matter where you live, no matter what culture you exist in... And with judgement comes conflict..
My latest conflict is a man who is unreasonably jealous that I would want to take his girl.. because he thinks him and I "play the same way"... This came as a shocker to me.. I truly had no interest in his girl and even if I did I would talk to him as she belongs to him due to the nature of that relationship.. it's a matter of respect.
Needless say this is fracturing one of my local groups we have, I've tried to mend it as much as I could on our end... With no success.
Judgement exists everywhere.
Conflict is inherent to humanity.
Help evolution.. be the better person. Avoid trivial conversation our community is small we need to band together not be divided..