Militant's Madness

A man who entered the lifestyle during the changing of the guard. From the old guard to whatever the hell we have now.. A 30 something Dominat Polyamours Male build a community in Berks County PA ---The House of Souls
2 days ago. Thu 18 Oct 2018 01:00:23 AM IDT

Just venting...

 

I have noticed that it is difficult for people to think beyond the masses..

 

The majority of people here in the US.. seem to limit the belief in power exchange to the return of the soliders from WW2... 

 

I do not mean to under at the involement of the gay leather community in today's Master and slave community... 

 

But the irony of the American mindset influencing what we believe to be the birth of power exchange... 

 

Well it worries me... Power exchange has been around since the cavemen.. if you want spread the gospel of M/s why limit it to the last 80 years....

 

 

1 month ago. Fri 24 Aug 2018 06:31:37 PM IDT

Is a lot closer to home than most people realize.. a not so foreign.

 

I hear all the time how a Master and slave Dynamic is too extreme, too far out for them. 

 

The truth is it's just a matter of respect and love for each other.

 

The terms themselves are more scarier then they dynamic.

 

Approach it like you should approach any relationship... 

 

With communication, sincerity and frankness.

2 months ago. Fri 03 Aug 2018 06:59:38 AM IDT

I am very frustrated. Apparently the connotations behind the word Master and slave.. stop people from exploring the lifestyle.

I have hearding budding Masters say I am not too you're level.. wait! Stop judging my dynamic give it a chance! This is real life...not fantasy.. I am not some guy walking around with a cat of nine tails all day...

8 months ago. Fri 26 Jan 2018 09:32:09 PM IST

By now any of those of you that know me, know that I'm a strong advocator for being cautious and safe. Particularly when dealing with new people in the lifestyle. By no means am I saying not to meet new people. Just the opposite. I'm a strong advocator of bringing new people in to our community.. but there is a need for using caution and simple boundaries..
Do not reveal personal information to quickly.. a name yes but a full name?
Someone wants to meet you.. meet at a public place.. preferably a munch with your friends you have in the community.. they can talk to the person and give you there feelings about the person afterwards...

I get it I'm preaching to the choir for most of you but a lot of you don't think of these things I've spent 15 years working in security and investigation... The stuff we do is dangerous yes fun kinky as all hell but we can do it safely there's no need to rush.

If you want to know more come out to one of our happy hour munchs, or message us and we will thru a munch Together for you so we can help you out...

If you need farther evidence read this news story... But don't read it for it's content read it for how they wrote it.. look at the spin they put on the "double life" and as far as I have read she wasn't even doing bdsm... imagine if she had been... They dont understand our desires.. and I don't blame them.. all the more reason to have a strong local community...check out the munchs in your area...please and be safe.. don't rush..

There are links to the news story out there.. you can find them if you so desire...

8 months ago. Fri 26 Jan 2018 08:02:57 PM IST

There's an unspoken connection between sadist and masochist... 

 

We think differently. Yes most of us know we are fucked up.. but not all of us know that we need that balance in our life..

 

Well I might want a relationship where I can change a masochistu upin the basement for hours upon a Time... 

 

Sometimes not everything we want is good for us... Just sometimes we need someone that can teach us how to love... And provide that balance for us..

 

When we find that person it takes work for us to put the energy into loving like people and not just play things.

8 months ago. Tue 23 Jan 2018 12:54:33 AM IST

This time next year I hope to be traveling internationally... Any recommendations for play spaces, events or dungeons to visit or kink Friendly places to go on the international stage?

9 months ago. Fri 19 Jan 2018 07:54:41 PM IST

Just an FYI Happy Hour Munch meets almost every Sunday night around 7. 

We also host a Berks Educational Society, a Master and Slaves educational group meeting once a month.

9 months ago. Sun 14 Jan 2018 02:20:25 AM IST

Our kink house is going to Baltimore play house tonight! 

 

Nothing more exciting then a SUV full of kinky people heading to a public dungeon .... In PJs for a pajamas party.

9 months ago. Fri 12 Jan 2018 08:43:07 PM IST

Yes, we are different.
We are the off balls and misfits.. even in our suits and pretty dresses.
Yes, we are different,
We may see sluts, angels, demons, victims, or even monsters in the mirror..
Yes, we are different.
We can center ourselves thru feeding that which others have suppressed..

When the play is done right, when the scene goes well...
And the pain flows..rope burns.. wax is melted and the knife is down..

The work stands still and for a brief time all is right in the world...
Yes, we are different..

We embrace the hardness of life and make it a game..
We dance with fate in the full light of pain and pleasure..

We are Sadiomasochist..
We are Riggers and Rope bunnies
We are fire sluts...

We are human..and proud to be different

9 months ago. Fri 12 Jan 2018 06:51:51 AM IST

We spend so much time limiting ourselfs sometimes we forget that the things we call staples in our lives... Were invented by risk takers...  ....flight... electricity to name a few...

 

Be your good damn self a stop trying to conform to society...