I lead a house that hosts regular munchs ( social events for those of us into the lifestyle and bdsm) on a regular basis. If you don't see an event posted here message me and I will send you the details of the next event. Most of our attendees find us from other sites.
https://thecage.co/events/?events_users_concept=event&id=1481
Some of us, live power exchange 24/7, and others enjoy it on the side as a fetish or a kink. I have sat in many classes and listen to people mix reality with fantasy. If anything has been made apparent over the past year it is this. Stability in seeking your desires requires an adjustment to your lifestyle. The current global health crisis limits large fuckery events and kink parties, yes I miss those too. However, this shouldn’t stop you from pursuing the lifestyle changes needed to be the best Dominant, submissive, Master, slave, or whatever label you choose to call your power exchange dynamic. In fact, the forced isolation and social distancing should be viewed as a chance to improve yourself and or your property for when the scene opens again.
Protocols, Rituals, ceremonies, self-discipline activities are all key building blocks to a stronger better you and your property. Take time to reevaluate, solidify and strengthen who you are and your skillsets. If you think you’re the best slave or the best Master already, well sorry that only tells me you are much lower in your self-assessment than you think you are. We all can improve regardless of the mental improvements or the physical. From weightless to opening one's mind to sharing your property or locking them down. Improvement is a two-way street for all of us on either side of the exchange.
Use this global situation to strengthen to build to become the better you. To lead better. To serve better. To obey quicker. To be more compassionate… to be… more of you and more of your power exchange.
~This has been an excerpt of a recent Loving Authority Broadcast for more follow our podcasts on all major podcast sites.~
“In the world, there is nothing more submissive and weak than water. Yet for attacking that which is hard and strong nothing can surpass it.” Lao Tzu
This quote, thousands of years old, explains the exchange of power at play with a power exchange relationship. It requires as much strength to be submissive as it does a Dominant. There is balance that is key to a successful power exchange relationship
Wow.. This is an old one from years...years ago. Thought some of you may enjoy it
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I feel I am different from others. Training for me is not about sex. It is about growth about seeing the person learn about themselves. To see then look up at you in tears and drool with the look on their face of "Yes sir... Again" they can tell they are learning something if they can get and keep me hard with or without contact. The feeling of seeing her blossom into her full potential is such a blessing. I love the act of training of helping someone separate from the social norms that are destroying our society. Of having then kissed the belt before it strikes them for failure to follow directions. Then to see the glow in their face when thru the drool and tears, the hugs and compliments come. Telling a girl, "This is what you did to earn the punishment, and this is everything you have done right and proper". To test them in a vanilla setting against the social grain of society to see them obey in an environment where they would be socially acceptable not to listen. For the drink filled without being prompted. To laugh, to dance, to obey, to care, to instruct...to train.
Perhaps its just this site, or perhaps there are not alot of people here hosting events in Eastern PA.
Regardless I am going to start posting my events. If your interested let me know and I will tell you where the munch meets
1. Happy Hour (Weekly) Near Reading\Kutztown - Sunday Nights
2. Coffee Munch (Monthly) Kutztown\Fleetwood 2nd Thursday of the month
3. GraveYard - Third Thursday of the month, at night, Fleetwood area.
4. Reading MAsT - Given once vetted
5. Berks-Mont Munch - Third Wednesday of the month in the evening - Birdsboro/Reading
These are just a few, So as you can see there are plenty of was to get involved in the local community..
This can be a very difficult task.
People (myself included) tend to find someone they get along with and rush to see into a relationship. I have learned to constantly test the relationships as we grow together... And I do not hide this from submissives that entertain playing with me.
Many start off in dominate or submissive roles then discover they are kinksters. There is nothing wrong with this.
However this doesn't hurt the lessen the pain of the severance of a partner . Particularly one you spent two years helping them to explore their path as a submissive with.. only to find that three years in they discover the want to go a different course.
I wish her well, saw it coming, but still a little sad to see her go...
I'm so excited for MsG this year.. is anyone else going to any of the East coast Master and slave events? MsC, MsG?
Conflict is inherent in our society and in our nature. However it seems it has gotten so bad that you can't voice your own opinion without offending someone.
When I first got involved in the public side of training slaves I had a new shiny approach..I was so excited that I finally found a place where people wouldn't judge me.
After all why would people judge you for helping people discover who they are.. helped one girl go back and save her marriage, another one discover they were into dollification and encouraged her to pursue the girl she loved in school..
But then the new shiny began to wear off.. some older people began to talked about how fast I was going through partners.. then the judgment came in the form of people at public dungeons not wanting to interact with me.. because they perceived me to be too scary..
The point is judgment exists no matter where you live, no matter what culture you exist in... And with judgement comes conflict..
My latest conflict is a man who is unreasonably jealous that I would want to take his girl.. because he thinks him and I "play the same way"... This came as a shocker to me.. I truly had no interest in his girl and even if I did I would talk to him as she belongs to him due to the nature of that relationship.. it's a matter of respect.
Needless say this is fracturing one of my local groups we have, I've tried to mend it as much as I could on our end... With no success.
Judgement exists everywhere.
Conflict is inherent to humanity.
Help evolution.. be the better person. Avoid trivial conversation our community is small we need to band together not be divided..
Just venting...
I have noticed that it is difficult for people to think beyond the masses..
The majority of people here in the US.. seem to limit the belief in power exchange to the return of the soliders from WW2...
I do not mean to under at the involement of the gay leather community in today's Master and slave community...
But the irony of the American mindset influencing what we believe to be the birth of power exchange...
Well it worries me... Power exchange has been around since the cavemen.. if you want spread the gospel of M/s why limit it to the last 80 years....