Express Yourself

Wishing everyone a happy new year! 

No resolutions here but always evolving. 

Xoxo 

Recently, on another site I received an email from a Dom and had a brief exchange. He said in conversation he wasn’t judgemental then typed the following,

“ Real Doms understand a female sub is a well of insecurity, struggle, pain, jaded past, and need for positive presence and acceptance.”

Excuse me Sir?

Look, I get some may be at times, with or without good reason. That’s life. A percentage just because. This statement I find is so toxic, misogynistic and infuriating! Geez, I wouldn’t go near this person. If I wrote "all male Dom’s are narcissistic insecure men who need to be above vs admit their failures” I hope I’d be slated. Also if that were so why the hell would I want one as a partner?

Insecurity? Sometimes over some things. Over all? No, I am pretty ok thanks. All humans have some insecurities at certain points in their life.

Struggle? In what way? I mean some aspects are a struggle. But do I struggle as such over all? Nope again.

Pain? No, some experiences are painful and that’s an appropriate response.

Jaded past? Hmm, caused at times by humans like you, you mean? However, there’s no way I’m allowing an experience with another to impact the next human I meet. As I am a responsible human you see.

And need for positive presence and acceptance? Don’t you? I mean this is nice isn’t it? Not a need however, a desire.

Oh my. Thank you for showing me exactly the type of Master I do not seek. 

Still smiling .... My search continues..... :)

Real is who you run to

When everything goes south

Real is one who holds your hand

With silence in their mouth

When the roof is on fire

And the building's coming down

Real's the one who'll chance the flames

Just to get you to the ground

Even here in Wonderland

There's one fact that holds true

Only three don't come in pairs

And all would slaughter you

The Red Queen has her demons

The Hatter's just insane

The Cat cannot be quantified;

He's Creator of the game

There's just one rule to Wonderland

It's how I've stayed alive

You've got to learn who's really real

Or you never will survive.

~Mandy Kocsis©2020~