Recently, on another site I received an email from a Dom and had a brief exchange. He said in conversation he wasn’t judgemental then typed the following,
“ Real Doms understand a female sub is a well of insecurity, struggle, pain, jaded past, and need for positive presence and acceptance.”
Excuse me Sir?
Look, I get some may be at times, with or without good reason. That’s life. A percentage just because. This statement I find is so toxic, misogynistic and infuriating! Geez, I wouldn’t go near this person. If I wrote "all male Dom’s are narcissistic insecure men who need to be above vs admit their failures” I hope I’d be slated. Also if that were so why the hell would I want one as a partner?
Insecurity? Sometimes over some things. Over all? No, I am pretty ok thanks. All humans have some insecurities at certain points in their life.
Struggle? In what way? I mean some aspects are a struggle. But do I struggle as such over all? Nope again.
Pain? No, some experiences are painful and that’s an appropriate response.
Jaded past? Hmm, caused at times by humans like you, you mean? However, there’s no way I’m allowing an experience with another to impact the next human I meet. As I am a responsible human you see.
And need for positive presence and acceptance? Don’t you? I mean this is nice isn’t it? Not a need however, a desire.
Oh my. Thank you for showing me exactly the type of Master I do not seek.
Still smiling .... My search continues..... :)
