I am sick and tired of women who have standards so high that no real man can reach them.
That being said, I am a tall, smart, funny, silly, yet logical man.
Unfortunately for the longest time I couldn't get a date, probably because I respect them too much, yet was unwilling to treat them like they were better than myself. I try to at least know my own worth.
I met a woman who claimed to be a sub. We moved in together and I quickly learned that she was really a lazy, self-centered narcissist.
I would have tossed her on the street sooner, except she lied about having an income. She had been sleeping on a friend's couch. That friend was tired of supporting her. If I tossed her out, then she would be out on the streets.
So for the start of 2020 I needed help with something...something normal. Something vanilla. She refused to help me. Five or six times I asked her to help me, and she refused to even look at me.
So I went to discipline her, and she called the police on me. I spent two weeks in jail, and lost my apartment and my job.
This has been a rebuilding year for me. Thankfully most of my stuff was put into storage while I was locked up.
However the good news is that I have learned a lot more about how to be a better dom and what to watch out for because of this mistake.