Voice
The voice is everything and really focuses your attention and drive onto what is being said, why it is being said and how it is being said. The tone of Control: firm, direct words and emphasis placed upon the direction that you are to take, a communication that needs to be followed and delivered with impressive effort and quality.
No time here for just plodding along and hoping for the best, thinking I will not notice your lack of enthusiasm for the Task given.
A harsh and abrupt voice generates motivation and application: making sure that Sir is happy with whatever you are Instructed to complete and deliver.
No point whatsoever in arguing back: the harsh voice is a clear signal that the time for debate, discussion, resistance even, is long gone. You know that you need to behave in a way that is expected of you.
The softer, loving voice is also very important: giving reassurance, guidance, comfort and generating that sweet feeling of closeness, a million miles away from the artificial sweetener that sits in the vanilla world.
Both voices are important to us, each giving something very different and sitting at the very core of our connection and each equally helping with your growth and development.
