The Phoenix - Eros' Rising

Why do people get it twisted and think that because a person identifies as a “Pleasure Dom” that they are soft?  I really do not think they understand what a Pleasure Dom really is. We are some of the most sadistic Dominants out here. I am sure that some will argue and talk about those that use different impact implements, or clamps, or whatever it is to cause that pain that their masochist is looking for. And believe me when I say, I also have those tools at my disposal. ?

But when it comes to being a Pleasure Dom, it takes patience, a knowing of your submissive’s pleasures and using them to your advantage. Being able to bring your submissive to the edge of orgasm and holding them there, begging you to bring them to climax. And then when you do, it is not just a 1 time orgasm, but climax after climax, after climax.  It is not about their satisfaction, but ours.

There is nothing more satisfying then seeing your submissive’s body tremble, twitch, and shake as they are lying there in a puddle from the overload of pleasure that they have experienced. And this is only the tip of the iceberg for a Pleasure Dom. 

So to those of you out there that think we are soft, don’t get it twisted.  We are ruthless in our art and are sadists through and through.  Be careful in what you ask for, because you will get it a 100 times fold before we are through. 

First and foremost 

It is good to see some challenges starting back up.

As it stands, I have 1 tattoo which was a one of a kind from a friend and artist of mine.

This was made for me  because he saw me as a “Watcher” due to the nature of my work back 20 years ago. 

This is what he came up with and put on my arm. 

As of this November, will be getting my back done.

This is the design thus far and people that know me will understand the significance of the design.

Maybe I or Hekate will post an update when the process begins. 
and yes, this will be the entire length of my back up to my neck for those who are wondering. 

Thank you TKP for the challenge. 

~Eros❤️?❤️?

We had a special guest this evening 

Just chillin on the fence post. 
You have to love the universe and all it’s wonders and messages.

It’s Sunday.

Today was a day to get some minor things done this morning and then relax this afternoon.

I am just sitting on our front steps listening to the wind blow through the trees and watching the ripples on the lake. All the while, having Ribs on the Smoker  as Hekate is inside preparing side dishes for this evenings meal. 

Without a doubt, it is a calm and relaxing afternoon. 
I hope that each of you are able to lay down the stresses of life and just be. 

It has been a while since anyone has posted a challenge here.  So I am going to set one up.  Who knows, maybe we will do a weekly challenge??

Anyway, before I loose track, here is the Challenge.

We shall call it the Respect / Admiration Challenge.

 * Pick 1 person on the cage that you Respect and / or Admire and write why.

** If you accept the challenge, Please make your "topic" Respect / Admiration Challenge Accepted.

*** Please do not share any personal details that the person would not share themselves.

This can be as long or short as you want. 

For mine, I pick The Kinky Poet aka TKP

I respect and admire TKP because of the beautiful and kinky mind that he has.  Whenever I have interacted with him in the past, TKP has always been kind and very gracious.  He is a definite beacon of respectfulness and I personally have never seen him get cross with anyone.

His poems are divine and stirring.  His use of words to bring his poems to life is exquisite. 

And whenever he says Love and Light to you, he really means it.

To you Good Sir, I bow. For you are a Gentleman and a Scholar, and I always look forward to your Poems on a daily basis.

Thank you for who you are and all that you do for this community.

Love and Light to you.

~Eros❤️?❤️?

I am happy to report that my post that was reported was reinstated because there was no violation of the TOS.
Here is the link so that it can be read and replied to if you wish.

Please read the comments  some had me ROTFL

https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?blog_id=117847&postid=83783

Thank you all for your support.

And happy 4th of July!!

~Eros❤️?❤️?

And to the students!!!

Okay, here is a rant / open discussion.

How many of you feel that if you are going to label yourself as an educator that you should actually have experience in what it is you are talking about?

For me, every educator that I have ever met has only spoken on things that they actually participate in. Breath Play, Shabari, different types of edge play, etc.

Even those that I follow who write, write from a place of actual life experiences. Thank you for being you and citing your references when used.

Now we have people calling themselves an “Educator” and the only thing they do is go to a website and copy and paste what they find. They are even getting sneaky and changing some words or a sentence here in there and calling it theirs. 
Here is what the community says to you. 

WE SEE YOU.

WE SEE WHAT YOU ARE DOING.

YOU’RE A FAKE.

SHAME ON YOU!!!

We are not stupid. You may be able to fool some people but, not all of us.