The Phoenix - Eros' Rising

Okay, I am going to go on a rant for a moment so that I can get this out of my system. Please bear with me.

If you are going to start talking with someone, be honest about your intentions. Be upfront about what you are looking for and stop the BS games. No one has time for that and no one wants to be involved in the drama. 

Learn to live consciously and be self aware. If you are here just to play stupid games to see how many people you can fuck with, then grow the fuck up. Playing mental games with people who did not consent makes you one of the biggest douche  bags out there.  Stop your shit!!

(Thank you for listening to my rant)

Here is a little something for all the douche bags out there.

As many of you get ready for a Valentine’s Dinner, 

I sit in a waiting room of a hospital waiting for Hekate to come out of surgery. 

Before you all start with the OMG what happened???,

This was a planned surgery that happened to fall on Valentine’s Day.  We have been waiting for a bit for it. (Part of the reason I have been absent)

None the less, instead of  doing the traditional thing, I will practice my patience for a bit longer. As if I have a choice. ??

It also gave me some time to reflect while looking over Lake Superior.

I/we are not looking for your sympathy or anything along that line. What we would ask is that as each of you celebrates in your own way, that you remember that there are those out there that cannot, for whatever reason. 
Say a prayer for those who are fighting this Valentine’s Day. 
Also, remember to never take for granted what you have and to give thanks for it every chance you can. 

To each of you

~Eros❤️?❤️?

Here are some funny things I found online while doing some shopping  

And of course the Kinkmas Shenanigans

Only the picture. It says enough.

When you get what you want in your struggle for self, and the world makes you king for a day.

Just go to the mirror and look at yourself, and see what that man has to say.

For it isn’t your father or mother or spouse, whose judgment you must pass.

The person whose verdict counts most in your life, is the man staring back from the glass.

Some people might think you’re a “straight shooting chum”, and call you a “Wonderful Guy”.

But the man in the glass says “You’re only a bum.”, if you can’t look him straight in the eye.

He’s the fellow to please never mind all the rest, for he is with you clear to the end.

And you’ve passed your most dangerous test, if the guy in the glass is your friend.

You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years, and get pats on the back as you pass.

But your final reward will be heartache and tears, if you have cheated The Man In The Glass.

~Author Unknown

Done with the permission of the Management.

We all have our “things” within the kink scene that we like.  One thing that I think we can almost all agree on is music while playing.

With that said, I reached out to Admin here on the cage and received permission to setup a Spotify Playlist that can be shared with the community.

Disclaimer:  This is in no way run by the cage.  The cage is in no way responsible for the music on this playlist.

Now that that is out of the way, I have posted up a link that, we as a community, can pull up during kinky playtime, scenes, or just to listen to while doing whatever you may do while alone.??

I have added some songs already but, this is group participation.  Please send me songs that you would like on the playlist either in comments or by message and I will be happy to add them.

Let us see where this may take us.

So again I see that the predators are among us.

I am not talking about the Primal/prey types either.

Nope!!  These are the ones that want to come in and pretend that they have been in lifestyle for a while , yet there profile screams “I am a newbie and on the hunt for a woman or man that I can manipulate under the umbrella of BDSM.”

They try and tell people that you have known for a good while that “That person is no good for you.” or “Protectors are only there to manipulate you because they are predators and that’s what they do so they can hunt as many subs as they can.”??

Obviously, they will give you some story of how they have been in lifestyle for 10 years and that they see it all the time and to trust them because they are right. ?

What these people fail to realize is that the community is pretty tight knit and that we all talk. We have all heard the same crap over and over again. (If I had a dollar for each time…)

I like to think that we, as a community, are very welcoming to those that are just coming in to the lifestyle. We don’t care about how much or little experience someone has.  It is okay to be humble and say that you don’t know what you don’t know.

What I think that most of us can’t / won’t tolerate is someone that comes in like they know everything about everything when we can all smell the BS like a Male dog can smell a bitch in heat. Anyone in this lifestyle knows that it would take multiple lifetimes to learn everything.

If you are new to BDSM, just say so and begin your journey the right way.  Do not be so eager that you fabricate who you are.  Again, we can see it.  Also, a lot of us live by certain principles which include the 4 pillars of Trust, Honesty, Respect, and Communication.

Last time for the people in the back. 
It is okay for you not to know what you don’t know. Honesty is better than creating something based in a lie. ?

Now we return to our regularly scheduled programming of Fuckery and Debauchery. 

OMFG!!!

What a fucking fantastic weekend!!!

Hekate and I celebrated our 1year anniversary this weekend at Naughty Revival 2023 and it was truly amazing. Happy Anniversary Hekate?❤️?❤️?

We met up with old friends from last years event, which was also our honeymoon.

We met new and amazing people that we will be building amazing friendships with.

We scened in the amazing dungeons they had at the event.

We went to some spectacular classes also.

Our time could not have gone any better.

Today, Hekate and I are recovering from all the activities from the past 3 days. As we do, we are reflecting on the events that took place and the people in the community we have met and are starting to network with.

Where we are at in MN, there is no community that is close. There are people but no clear community.

For this reason, with the help of others we met, we are starting a community for the North Central part of our State to help with education and event organizing to bring people of like minds together. 
Educators that we have known and just met from around the Country have agreed to help us with this endevor.

House Yggdrasil is beginning to take shape from just a concept with a few people in our area to ramping up as a full community with the support of fellow kinksters, and kink educators.

Hekate and I cannot thank those involved enough. This is about making a place that is safe for all. From beginners to those that have been in the lifestyle for years.

As I said, it was one hell of a weekend!!

The year was 1775. The date was November 10th.

In a place called Tun Tavern, in the city of Philadelphia PA. one of the greatest, if not the greatest, fighting forces was born.
The United States Marine Corps

This day is like no other day for those that are known as Marines. This is a day of celebration. 
Tonight will be a night of festivities as Marines around the World will sit, eat, and toast all who came before and those that are still here and to those yet to be born in blood, sweat, and pain. 
Today we turn 248 

To all my brothers and sisters out here

Semper Fi!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEVIL DOGS!!