Today I had a good chuckle at my exes expense, ( not to his face mind you ), because of the words he chooses to "insult" me with. Being an extreme member of the vanilla club, he always goes to sexuality to throw the insults my way- and slut, I noticed, is his favorite to throw out at me. I know he thinks he is getting me good, bringing me down and making me wallow in my perpetual grief for my long gone sense of morality....*giggle*
But he isn't. Slut, directed at me...I don't find it insulting. I love sex. I love to be able to *finally* experience my sexuality and not feel shame for it. While that word is derogatory coming from him, for me I have taken the word back. It is empowering to me and shows how far I have came in this journey called life. I have no shame as I walk my path, my slut head high. I am many things. A woman, daughter, friend, lover....a submissive, masochist and slut to name a few. And I love being able to embrace it all.
Words have power, but WE ultimately decide what impacts us. My ex can call me a slut and hate me for it all his heart desires...but I just laugh both on the inside and out thinking, you know what broseph, you are right- I am. 😊🔥
-Ash💜
Some pics from a little shoot I did for my slutty self 😉🔥
