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My mind is an oubliette

Just a place for random thoughts, stories, pictures and whatever else my mind puts there. Buckle up buttercup
1 year ago. February 17, 2024 at 2:27 PM

Today I had a good chuckle at my exes expense, ( not to his face mind you ), because of the words he chooses to "insult" me with. Being an extreme member of the vanilla club,  he always goes to sexuality to throw the insults my way- and slut, I noticed, is his favorite to throw out at me. I know he thinks he is getting me good, bringing me down and making me wallow in my perpetual grief for my long gone sense of morality....*giggle*


But he isn't.  Slut, directed at me...I don't find it insulting.  I love sex. I love to be able to *finally* experience my sexuality and not feel shame for it. While that word is derogatory coming from him, for me I have taken the word back. It is empowering to me and shows how far I have came in this journey called life. I have no shame as I walk my path, my slut head high. I am many things. A woman, daughter,  friend, lover....a submissive,  masochist and slut to name a few. And I love being able to embrace it all.


Words have power,  but WE ultimately decide what impacts us. My ex can call me a slut and hate me for it all his heart desires...but I just laugh both on the inside and out thinking, you know what broseph,  you are right- I am.  ??

-Ash?

Some pics from a little shoot I did for my slutty self ??

vv V vv​(sadist male) - I don’t know what church folk back in the 50’s decided that slut should be a derogatory word but they were wrong.
I think it’s a beautiful descriptive word slap on a few adjectives it only gets more descriptive and enticing.
Yes tone and the person saying it matters and they should be punished for using it negatively.
Hold your slut head high indeed.
1 year ago
Likeavirgin​(sub female) - All I can be is me, with my head held high?
1 year ago
Sir Don​(dom male) - You are who you are and very nice pictures I might add. Be true to yourself
1 year ago
Likeavirgin​(sub female) - Always have to be true? thank you for that!
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
I saw a tee shirt that said "you say slut like its a bad thing" ?

☝️ Change you name on here to likeaslut?
?
Lol, probably a bad idea ?

Very hot pictures sexy girl, very hot indeed ????
1 year ago
Likeavirgin​(sub female) - Thank you very much Mr. Jack, that's sweet of you?
I will have to look for one of these shirts...I love it?
1 year ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female)​{⚓ Taken} - Screw him...well...not literally. ? you took back your power!
And your pictures look amazing!
1 year ago
Likeavirgin​(sub female) - Aww thank you very much? and yes..screw that cockwomble
1 year ago
Likeavirgin​(sub female) - ??
1 year ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female)​{⚓ Taken} - That's good! Your smiling! Live your best life and don't mind him. :) :) :)
1 year ago
MaximusPrimus - Well done, Miss. Chin up!
1 year ago
Likeavirgin​(sub female) - Thank you?
11 months ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - Wonderful post and gorgeous pics! ❤️
1 year ago
Likeavirgin​(sub female) - Aww thank you, that's very sweet of you ?
11 months ago

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