To all the wonderful daddys and their littles out there, this is for you.
My parents are wonderful and have supported me to no end. However, for a number of reasons, namely processing issues and social conditioning, there was emotional repression and distance. I did not feel understood or like I belonged.
Many years of seeking validation, never to be found. I built walls to protect my 'unpleasant' emotions and the possibility of rejection. This, I only acknowledged recently - the desire to be nurtured and protected. For me, this is the essence of what a daddy dominant provides - acceptance, care, non-judgement, encouragement, support, facilitation and pride.
It is not about 'daddy issues' or sexual taboos, it is merely a matter of fulfilling what all humans need - to feel wholly accepted and loved without judgement.
I loosely hold a concept (or fantasy) of a daddy dominant and for some reason I have associated it with a song.
Let's go Cloudbusting Daddy (AKA Donald Sutherland)!
Thanks for making us feel important and providing a place in this world for us. ???
Sadists, I haven't forgotten you - you're up next ?✌️.