Commisioned based sales can be stressful. Most don't understand the stress that it brings knowing your pay check is derived from what you sell that day. So there is a saying....K.I.S.S....keep it simple stupid.
You hand someone your recommendations on a piece of paper. The prices are printed with all the added fees. Just before handing the customer that dreaded paper you went over what is included, why those items are recommended. How those items will effect you. You talked about your experiences.
Does any of this sound familiar?
So let's 💋....keep it simple stupid
When getting to know a Dom or sub we should always talk about expectations. The more honest the better. This would be the time when experiences are exchanged. This is equal time. No one person has agreed to anything. Communication is key at this moment.
As the Dom I should articulate my experience. What I am not proficient at and what I would enjoy learning from future experiences. K.I.S.S.
As we are going over the finer details of what is suggested or recommended we move along to what is needed. This would be the time when questions are asked. What relationship expectations do each have? A dynamic only? A friendship? To one day marry and have kids playing in the yard? K.I.S.S.
What is the time expectations for all this to take place? Can some of this be planned out for future dates? Online only or can we travel. K.I.S.S.
Sales is a stressful job. Meeting and greeting is stressful. Honesty is even harder. One has to be honest with themselves first in order to be honest with other. A Dom is a salesman....plain and simple. Now are they an honest salesman is a good question.
I was called out by someone for not taking the time to get to know them. "How can you get to know someone if you don't ask questions" She was correct. I have been all the better for it.
I have kept it simple since. Being honest with myself and others. Making typos all along the way.
Submissives I would make a simple recommendation of keeping it simple silly. Ask the hard questions before the price is finally given. Just make sure you have the means to pay it.
Be safe people