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3 years ago. July 22, 2020 at 3:15 PM

Hello everyone

I hope everyone is safe and healthy. We are amidst weird times. Sending positive vibes to all. 

If you haven’t read my last blog, please do before continuing on with this post. For those that have read it, I have some updates for you all. 

Mr. Brat Tamer, is getting in touch with kink way more than I have expected. He has slowly progressed. He said numerous times that he would do something if I want it to be done even if he doesn’t enjoy it. However, I want to find what is it that he truly enjoys, so I will introduce him to something and see if he does it on his own or enjoys it at all.

He is regularly in the mood to spank, which work out GREAT for me. I’m glad he enjoys that. However, he isn’t into Ass play of any sort.  I have gotten him quite fond of nipple-play as well, he was and still is good at what he does there but I gave him a few ideas and the permission to be less gentle.

Also, we both love it when he fucks my face. 

He is not fond of wax play nor any sort of impact play yet. However, I have assured him that I do enjoy a crop and a flogger. We can incorporate them when he is ready. He has also been into rigging and sensory deprivation, especially eyesight.

 

And last but not least he started telling me what to do ... as in achievable goals and that he would “shun” me as punishment for a week or whatever if I don’t abide them. He is not trying to be a Dominant as we know it. I’m just getting him to let loose and release his inner dominance. No rules, no textbook Dominant. Just him. His own essence in his dominance. 

 

Thank you for reading,  

 

until next time. 

Philly Belwas​(dom male) - Just be careful with shunning or being ignored or left alone as a punishment. Many will use that as an excuse to leave subs hanging or a relationship very open.

Congratulations on everything else and good luck with the journey 😁
3 years ago

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