Some of these quicker than others:
1. That I have a voice and to use it.
2. That ignorance is not an excuse for lack of knowledge.
3. If I don't know something find those who do and learn BEFORE following blindly
4. My flaws and imperfections do not make me less just imperfectly flawed which is a beauty all its own.
5. Fear is not something to run from but to face head on proudly and defiantly.
6. Make sure that actions match words and that time is given so that can be seen.
7. Distance does not always make a heart fonder or loyal.
8. The only one who should bring up pushing a hard limit is me.
9. Real life community is far less scary than what I imagined in my head.
10. Less talk more listening will open more doors and eyes.
11. No means No No matter who what or where says it. Period
12. Being a friend means hurting feelings sometimes.
13. Frenzy never ends well. Take a breath, step back and breath.
14. I can't save them all.
15. Revenge best served cold is still a cold meal
16. Let go of the past and wish it well.
17. Never settle for less or lower than my worth.
18. The one that is right may be the last one to be noticed.
19. The Golden rule isn't always golden.
20. Some bridges are meant to be burned.