I am really showing you how I respect you and care for you.
I am expressing to you how much I want to connect with you and desire to be close to you.
I am eagerly obeying you because I want to please you.
It is because I look up to and admire you.
I want you to see how much I want to be your good girl.
I hope you know how I look forward to your praise and appreciation.
I do it, though, because the act in itself is it’s own reward.
I want to feel how you are in control.
Show me how you are not only in control of yourself, our environment, but also how you can responsibly be in control of me.
I want you to know me so well that you know what I want and like without me even having to express it verbally in real time.
Then, I can go nonverbal with you and be fully present in the moment because I trust you to be respectful and capable.
I want to let go with you.
I want you to let you lead me to new heights of bliss!
I wish I was laying in your bed
Receiving soft kisses on my head
I wish I was laying in your arms
And that we turned off the alarms.
I wish I was snuggling all night
pressed against your body right.
I wish I was hugging you lightly
And you said hug me tightly.
I wish I was kissing your smooth cheek
and your cock starts to leak.
I wish I was being pulled to you
As you whisper I have to have you.
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42F Single, Monogamous, Straight Princess sub ISO a Loving Daddy Dom, Between 40 - 50, for an LTR IRL
LTR = Long Term Relationship
IRL = In Real Life
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Hi, Everyone!
About Me:
⭐ I am a 42F Passionate Princess sub.
About the Type of Relationship that I Want:
⭐ I am looking for my life partner, but obviously, we would start with simply getting to know each other.
About My Ideal Man:
⭐ I want to find a Man who is intelligent, educated, sophisticated, professional, has a good heart, and a great sense of humor.
About My Physical:
⭐ 5 ft 8 in
⭐ Curvy
⭐ Brown Eyes
⭐ Curly Brown Hair
⭐ Caucasian
About My Emotional:
⭐ I want to love and be loved.
About My Intellectual:
⭐ I love to learn, and I am eager to please.
About My Spiritual:
⭐ I want to connect on all levels and become one with my life mate.
About What I Want:
⭐ I thrive in environments overflowing with Loving-Positivity (i.e., no humiliation or degradation!).
About What I Don't Want:
⭐ Please do not message me to express interest in me if you are unavailable to have a serious, in-person, long-term relationship. I am not interested in sex outside of this committed future relationship.
About What I Want To Receive:
⭐ Please share a thoughtful and sweet direct message with me where you express yourself similarly.
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Please!
I want to belong to you.
I want you to claim me.
I want to feel fully possessed by you.
I want you to own me.
I want to be yours!
I am flattered by the attention, interest, and offers, but please know that I am stubborn because I know what I want.
I just don't want to have sex without love.
Why Don't I Want to Have Sex Without Love?
Sex to me is a way to bond.
I am looking for my life partner and not a play partner.
I am looking for one Man to be united with for the rest of my life.
I want one Man to be my all.
I want to meet all of his needs just as he will meet all of mine.
I want us to take care of each other.
I don't want to share or be shared.
I want double monogamy where we are loyal to each other.
This need comes from my desire to feel owned, possessed, and claimed.
I want to feel like the most important and valuable person in your life because I should be and you will be to me.
For me, sex and kink are ways to connect even more. They are not ends in themselves.
As much as I love pleasure, I don't need pleasure for pleasure's sake.
I am looking for connection.
I want to connect on all levels.
I want to find that person who is right for me and who is my Match.
This Man has to want to and be capable of connecting with me in the deepest ways possible.
I want us to become one where we merge together and there is no separation anymore between us.
This union is only possible for us within a healthy relationship that is built on trust, respect, love, and good communication.
Ultimately, it is love that I am seeking. I want to find the right Man to love and who can love me completely.
Sex alone without love is pointless to me.
As I left early voting and walked to my car at the end of October 2019, I stopped to talk to a local political candidate to encourage him to support the field of Public Health generally and causes that I cared about specifically that impacted our community. I quickly found myself engaged in an intellectually stimulating conversation with a man who was interested in many of the same things I cared about. He seemed genuinely interested in making the world a better place and in bettering himself. I found that we were speaking the same language. After a long conversation, I excused myself because I had cold groceries waiting for me in the car. That conversation led to a 3-week texting affair where we met twice. I enjoyed his sense of humor and attention as we got to know each other. I was seduced by him, but nothing physical came of it. This experience woke me up sexually though because it reminded me how I am a woman and I am desirable. I had been ignoring my physical needs due to prioritizing meeting the needs of my son as a single mom and of my parents as a caretaking daughter.
Since I had separated from my ex-husband when my now almost 13-year-old son was an infant, I had thought I would find the right guy for me in my day to day life. I have only now realized how cloistered away I have been and that it was time for me to become proactive with my search for my dream guy. A female friend of mine asked me if I had ever tried Tinder. My response to her was that I wasn’t looking for a hookup, but a long term relationship or even marriage because I potentially want to have another child with the right guy. She told me that Tinder wasn’t just a hookup site and that all I had to do was write that I was not interested in hookups in my profile to get the appropriate responses. I like to be adventurous and try new things, so I posted a profile in the new year.
The first person to message me on Tinder was a Dom seeking a sub for him and his wife to play with. Obviously, he did not read my profile. At the time, I didn’t know what a Dom or a sub was. I had never heard about kink or knew what he was asking. Looking back, I did answer some of his questions as a sub would. My favorite position is doggy style and I do like for the man to be in charge in the bedroom. I appreciated the interest and enjoyed hearing what he was looking for, but I did not pursue the opportunity to join in on the 3-some.
Later when I was speaking to someone else on Tinder, who appeared vanilla, I was asked about how my experience on Tinder was going so far. I laughed and shared about how unexpected it was for me to get the opposite of what I was looking for in my first message on Monday morning. As I described the scenario, I captured this Dom’s attention by talking about kink. We then stayed up all night talking about kink and what he would want to do to me if we met in person. I loved hearing about how much he wanted me and how he wanted to show me what it meant to be a sub. I found out a couple of nights later in person. Overall, I enjoyed the experience. I was euphoric in subspace. I loved having my hair pulled and relinquishing control. It didn’t go very far though because I saw how he wasn’t right for me. That was my only in-person Dom/sub experience. Since then, I have only had online experiences.
Most of my online experiences were called Master/slave relationships and a few of those were total power exchange dynamics. Almost all of them didn’t last long. From those experiences, I learned more about myself, what I want, what I don’t want, and what it means to be a sub. I felt like each relationship was better than the last in terms of quality and being closer to what I wanted.
I feel so much gratitude to each of the men who wanted to connect with me. I also feel sadness for what could have been. I see now how all of those relationships weren’t right for me and it was in my best interest not to have them anymore even if at the time I couldn’t see that and I still feel emotionally attached to some of the men because I felt so connected to them. I wish them all only good things in life. I hope they find the happiness that they are looking for because they truly deserve it.
By you.
I want you to make me yours.
I want you to possess me in every way.
I want to give myself entirely to you.
I ache to be yours and only yours.
I want you to own me.
"What are things that make you want to continue a conversation?"
I like when someone's initial message to me is thoughtful and reflects that they have read my profile.
A sense of a humor is a must for me to want to continue a conversation. I like when someone is witty and clever enough to make me laugh out loud. If I keep smiling thoughout the conversation, then that is a good thing!
I like when people reveal a calm confidence because they know who they are and what they want.
I highly appreciate it when people express their intentions regarding what they want from me or with me.
I prefer video chatting as soon as possible with someone because I can learn so much more through that interaction than through voice or text. It also shows they aren't a catfish or hiding from me.
I 100% appreciate honesty from the start. Good communication and transparency are both essential aspects for a healthy relationship.
I will continue a conversation if I feel like we have compatibility and chemistry.
After the initial conversation, I value consistency and continued contact at regular intervals where we share time together to learn more about each other.
I do like soft and gentle love-making, but sometimes I want it rough and primal.
I want to feel the animal inside of you come out to play.
I want your desire for me to overwhelm you so much that you just have to be inside me.
I want you take me and have your way with me.
I want you to grab me and hold me down while you fuck me like the animal that you are.
I want to feel helpless to you as you take control of me.
I want you to be an animal so that the animal inside me can come out, as well!