I am flattered by the attention, interest, and offers, but please know that I am stubborn because I know what I want.
I just don't want to have sex without love.
Why Don't I Want to Have Sex Without Love?
Sex to me is a way to bond.
I am looking for my life partner and not a play partner.
I am looking for one Man to be united with for the rest of my life.
I want one Man to be my all.
I want to meet all of his needs just as he will meet all of mine.
I want us to take care of each other.
I don't want to share or be shared.
I want double monogamy where we are loyal to each other.
This need comes from my desire to feel owned, possessed, and claimed.
I want to feel like the most important and valuable person in your life because I should be and you will be to me.
For me, sex and kink are ways to connect even more. They are not ends in themselves.
As much as I love pleasure, I don't need pleasure for pleasure's sake.
I am looking for connection.
I want to connect on all levels.
I want to find that person who is right for me and who is my Match.
This Man has to want to and be capable of connecting with me in the deepest ways possible.
I want us to become one where we merge together and there is no separation anymore between us.
This union is only possible for us within a healthy relationship that is built on trust, respect, love, and good communication.
Ultimately, it is love that I am seeking. I want to find the right Man to love and who can love me completely.
Sex alone without love is pointless to me.
