Thoughts, Reflections, Insights, and Ponderings of PrincessLove

I do like soft and gentle love-making, but sometimes I want it rough and primal.

I want to feel the animal inside of you come out to play.

I want your desire for me to overwhelm you so much that you just have to be inside me.

I want you take me and have your way with me.

I want you to grab me and hold me down while you fuck me like the animal that you are.

I want to feel helpless to you as you take control of me.

I want you to be an animal so that the animal inside me can come out, as well!

I’m a good girl in so many ways.

I’m a good girl to be with because I am self-aware, interested in growing, and kind.

I’m a good girl to play with because I am eager to learn, eager to please, and eager to try new things.

I am good girl to laugh with because I see the absurdity of life, find humor in almost everything, and love being entertained with wit.

I am a good girl to grow with because I am patient, helpful, and adventurous.

I am a good girl to learn with because I know things that I can share, I know what I don’t know, and I know how to learn.

I am a good girl to travel with because I am a Renaissance woman who enjoys all areas of discovery, I relish life, and I like to plan.

I am a good girl to enjoy culture with because I actually have fun experiencing the cultural arts, I like to dress up, and I like appreciating the creations of my fellow humans.

I am a good girl to go to sleep with because I like to snuggle, I like having a comfy bed with a pillow pile, and I heat things up.

I am a good girl to make love with because I love loving and being loved.

I am a good girl to explore kink with because I am an empath who can feel the energy exchange in a D/s dynamic, easily gets into subspace by being with a confident leader, and I love connecting through kink activities.

I am a good girl to have fun with because I am creative, curious, and open-minded.

I am a good girl to get serious with because I only want and need to be with one man, I have a strong desire to feel owned and possessed, and I want to bond and become attached.

I am a good girl to be vanilla with because I like being romanced, I want to have a healthy relationship that functions in all areas of life, and I am respectful to all regardless of how they identify, which means I can be in any environment.

I am a good girl to be yourself with because I accept you as you are, I like to live authentically, and I love unconditionally.

I am a good girl to flirt with because I like to smile, make others smile, and share good times together.

I am a submissive. It is who I am. So, being submissive is a way to fully express myself.

I am eager to please, and I like being obedient. I like knowing that I am doing what my Dom wants.

I like feeling how he is in control. It allows me to let go. I love subspace where I can just be.

My biggest kink is the D/s dynamic itself. I love the feeling of the energy exchange and feeling connected.

I am looking for someone I want to connect with in all ways. I need to look up to and admire my Dom. Then, I naturally respect him.

I like feeling that I can trust my Dom to be responsible so that I feel safe and protected

I need to be made love to.
I need to feel how you feel about me.
I want you to express your emotions through your physical actions.
I want to feel your desire for me.
I want you to tenderly caress and touch me.
I need your touch.
I need you.
I need all of you.
I don’t want just your body.
I want your entire being
Because I want to merge with you
Through our act of love making.
I don’t want there to be any separation between us anymore.
Guide us to this special place where we become one.

I want to be on my knees for you.
I want to kneel in front of you.
I want to serve you as only I know how to.
I want to worship your cock.
I want to make love to it.
I want you in my mouth.
I want to feel you filling me up.
My want for you is more than a want.
It is a need.
I need you!
Don't you know how much I crave feeling you in me?

It is all about connection.
Connect with your partner in every way: intellectually, emotionally, mentally, etc.
When you feel connected, it is easy to feel safe and to trust.

Enjoy each other and have fun.
Create a positive, loving space.
When you feel good, it is easy to enter that positivity feedback loop.

Create a space where you are free from responsibilities and outside pressures.
Clear your head of real world worries before playing by talking about them.
Otherwise, intrusive thoughts may be more common.

Create a beautiful space where you want to connect. Have it be uplifting and tranquil. Turn off your phones and alarms. Free yourself from outside distractions.

Then, when you are ready, invite your partner to join you on the bed. Look into her gorgeous eyes and smile. It isn’t a staring contest, but spend some time simply enjoying looking into each other’s eyes and being close together. You can hold hands. You might notice after awhile that your breaths begin to match each other as you tune into one another’s rhythm.

When you are relaxed, begin gently caressing your partner’s skin lightly. You may start wherever you like and slowly explore one another’s bodies with soft touches, which might soon turn into kisses. There is no rush. You have all the time in the world. As your bodies awaken and your breathing changes, you’ll notice how your mind quiets. You are focused more on the here and now.

The goal isn’t about giving each other orgasms as quickly as possible. Instead, it is about connecting through knowing each other in a deeper way.

It takes a minute to accept yourself as you are and to be okay with your vulnerability. Instead of hiding, you want to be seen. You want your partner to feel what you are feeling. You also want to give your partner pleasure because of your feelings for them.

For me, Love is a verb. It is giving positive energy to someone and acting to increase their happiness in the world.

When you are with your partner in this space, you are no longer thinking about yourself and your own pleasure, but rather how you want to pleasure your partner. You know that by offering your body, you can give your partner so much pleasure. You are the best gift because you are giving all of you and not just the physical self. Your partner can feel your desire how you want to be united with them. That feeling reassures them how much you want to connect with them on the highest heights.

It doesn’t matter what kinky activities you choose to do. These are all fun ways to connect even more. It helps you to get on the same wavelength. It is all about intent. Is it only about physical pleasure or is it about connection, too?

I find the greatest pleasures come from being connected and wanting to connect.

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The challenge is finding someone capable of connecting on all levels. Many people are limited in some way or aren’t ready.

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When you do find someone that is a good match for you, it requires consistent investment to maintain that connection.

Over time, the potential to go even higher exists because you have more history together of things that bonded you closer.

Transcendent Sex is 
- Uniting the two of us, seemingly separate beautiful beings, into one.
- Connecting beyond space and time.
- Entering a place where nothing exists, but the experiencing of each other.
- Obtaining a heightened consciousness where we remember that everything is one.
- Reaching a euphoric state that is only achievable through this divine merging.
- Feeling the energy flow in you and through you to/from your partner and beyond.
- Realizing how our bodies are simply vessels to receive/give pleasure.
- Giving/receiving only love to/from the cosmos.
- Living fully present in the now.
- Being one with everything!

"What does it mean to be a "good girl?"

It means that
1. I am eager to please.
2. I like being obedient.
3. I like knowing that I am doing as I should.

I have such a strong urge to mate.

It is driving me! 

Sometimes, all I can think about is being with my future partner and how amazing it will be. 

I want us to be connected on all levels. 

I want us to become one together. 

I want there to be no separation. 

I want our heartbeats and lives in sync. 

I am being as patient as I can be on my journey. 

Yet, my hormones scream to me that I need a man.

Fortunately, my brain and heart have won so far in this struggle to wait for the right man for me. 

It is a good thing I am a good lover to myself. 

Otherwise, I don't know if I would have succumbed or not.

I am fortunate in so many ways, including having an awesome toy collection. ; )

I am an anal virgin. 

It is something that I never thought I would lose or want to lose. 

Now, I can't imagine masturbating without an anal toy inside me to help fill me up and get my g-spot in the right place for my dildo. 

I like the intensity of the experience and the increase in sensations. 

I am sure it is a different experience altogether to play with toys compared to being with a Man. 

I have been imagining what that might be like. Watching porn has been educational to see anal sex in action. 

Of course, he would have to be the right Man for me to lose my anal virginity to. 

I am looking for a Man that complements me in every way. 

Knowing that I am such a special and unique individual has made me realize how I must be patient to find such a rare Dom, who is a match to me.

One thing for sure is that he will be loving and gentle with me as we explore anal sex in order to ensure that it is a pleasurable and fun experience.