Hazell(sub female)

Helloooooo

Well hi this is Hazel here writing in my blog for the first time.
It's not like lots of people are gonna read this but I'm gonna write anyways.
I'm so new to the community and I haven't had any sort of sexual experience so unfortunately I'm not gonna be sharing my experiences on the lifestyle here.
Although I like to share interesting parts of my day or some fine art etc.

Soo stay tuned and take care =))

Trust

3 years ago. June 20, 2021 at 9:46 PM

How do you do?

I hope you're ok

Let's get to it...

So in the past few weeks all possible dramas in my life have been swimming up to the surface.

I lost my grandfather to the Covid which was the first important death in my life and I had a hard time moving on.(no pity needed I'm just trying to give you a better image 😉 )

Anyhow after that I was so vulnerable (still am)

And it got me thinking how does people hurt me/us?

This is what I want to talk about :TRUST

As an extrovert I find comfort in talking to people I trust about my problems and everything else , it makes me feel better.

Now back to the drama..

Some people that I trusted did hurt me with the things I told them and I hurt some important people in my life because of trusting wrong people.

So I know you may feel lonely in different ways and some of you may be like me... finding your peace in communication and not in alone time.

I'm talking to you dear fellas.

Keep people around and have fun but please and please don't trust anyone unless they earn it. It will be a much sweeter trust believe me.

In one sentence : Be smarter than I am

And remember in most situations that we get hurt it's by the people we trusted :)

Now let's listen to some music :)

(This song walked me through grief hope you enjoy it to)

Stay safe :))

HEAVEN'S STARCHILD(switch female) - My condolences tomyou and.your family ((HUGS)) 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

3 years ago

Hazell(sub female) - Thank you so much =)) ♥️

3 years ago

alwayswantedthis(sub female) - Sorry for your loss but I for 1 completely understand what happened when. Trusting the wrong people... I hope that things get better and I'm a good listener if u need a vent place...

3 years ago

Hazell(sub female) - Thank you for your kind words and I wish you didn't know how that sucks :))
And I will keep that in mind 🙏🏻

3 years ago

MarloweS(dom male) - I hope you are progressing well after your loss.

Regarding trust, there are two things that stand out for me:

1) figuring out the need to confide (and trust) in another - we're social yes, but we can process most of our own shit without anyone else (personal responsibility); therefore, we can trust fewer people and only those we know are on the same wavelength as us. There are many ways 'trust' can start to break down - someone might keep the secret you share, but you realise that they're still more in it for what they can get out of it.

2) don't be hurt - who made you trust that person? who allowed it? You made a choice, now move on. But learn from it. Understand why you trusted them and why you needed to share with them (see point 1).

That said, if you trust people in certain ways - shared secrets, for example - it gives plenty to contemplate around trust and you have the opportunity to learn a lot about yourself.

2 years ago

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