Daydreaming, I envision a society where alpha females rule and men are born to submit. The women run the society, and raise their men to be submissive and obedient, to stay home and run the household, and cater to their every whim (both sexually and domestically.) Should these men step out of line, it is the responsibility of their female dominants to chastise and punish them, to tame and gentle the innate aggression of the men under their care.
Would this be the ideal society? For some, yes. (I certainly wouldn't mind living in such a system!)
But let's be honest; for probably the majority of us, it would be horrible.
Other people envision a society where men rule things, and women are born to submit. The men run the society, and raise women from birth to be submissive and obedient, to stay at home, prepare food, raise the kids, and should not be allowed to hold most professional jobs or even be allowed to vote.
Many people believe this is the ideal society. And for some it is! I am sure a lot of people wouldn't mind living under such a system.
But let's be honest, for a lot of us, it would be horrible.
There is one difference, and that is: One group clearly understands that it would be horrible. The other, well, many advocates of the other system want to forcefully impose it on the rest of us- even those of us who would find it horrible.
As of now, where I live, we are still free to live our lives as we choose, and let others live their lives as they choose. At least, as of right now, we are still free to live whatever dynamic in our relationships we believe will lead to a happy and fulfilling life. If it becomes forced on you though, then it can only lead to oppression and misery. I wish more people would understand that.