First up, I don't always update this consistently with any pattern. Sometimes whole weeks, even a near month, may go by where I don't have anything worthwhile to post, while other times I might feel like posting two or even three days in a row. (And sometimes even when I do have something worthwhile to post, people don't always think it's worthwhile- that's just how it goes though.)
So, in just three days, LockTober begins. If I had a willing keyholder, I would be right there with you guys. I don't, and maybe I'm lucky in that respect??
I've never gone longer than two weeks, and that was purely self-discipline. I don't know If I'd have the self discipline to go a whole month. When I tried, by the end of week 2, I was in a pretty hyper-sexualized head-space and would have done just about anything for anyone if they happened to hold the key to my hypothetical cock cage.
With that said, guys... Let Saturday Night be your night to remember before a month of sexual fasting. May your orgasms be long, powerful, intense and satisfying, something to remember to help get you through the long month ahead. Above all, think of the one you are sacrificing your sexual freedom for, and the reasons why you are choosing to do it. Let it be a bondage of love and trust as well as kink and control. This is the night to take Her out, show her a good time, be a good husband, or lover, or boyfriend, and above all, submissive, to Her- on this one last night. Buy Her something nice, take Her out dancing if she likes dancing, take Her to a movie of her choice if she likes movies, take Her out to the nicest restaurant you can afford. And if, at the end of the night, She lets you have a reward, make it count! It is your last one for a long time. But of course, overall, make it worthwhile to Her. Remember that She is special to you. On Saturday Night, do what it takes to let her know it.
To those of you who are keyholders out there, keep in mind the sacrifice your man is making on your behalf. Remember what he is doing for you, and why he is doing it. Remember the sacrifice he is making, and what he is giving up. Help make his last night of sexual release a memorable, passionate and pleasurable one, knowing that you will have endless opportunity to tease, torment, edge and deny him to frustrating insanity through the long month ahead. And also control him- since after all, that's the reason you are doing this, right? On the other hand, you may even choose to make his last orgasmic release a humiliating and degrading one, if you so desire. (My naughty mind can think of plenty of ways to do so...) By now, all you dominant keyholder types out there- you have trained your men well. On Saturday night, let him show you just how well trained he is, so he can earn that last reward one last time.
And then... CLICK! The lock goes on.
And the key goes into your purse, to be forgotten about until one month's time, until he hopefully earns his happy release after the midnight Halloween fetish ball (or whatever you guys do to celebrate Halloween.)
Until I have something else worthwhile to post...thanks for reading!