Over the years, I've read many posts, blogs, etc. by male submissives who state that they are worthless, have a "pathetic cock" or whatever, and want nothing more than to submit; or to experience this or that kink, at the hands of a powerful god or goddess.
I can relate. I know these feelings all too well. I experience them myself, sometimes intensely.
Except, we need to remember one thing.
We are NOT "worthless."
We are more than the sum of our kinks, and a list of desires.
Each one of us has something, perhaps many things, to offer in a relationship. Even if you think you don't- you do. It might take a while to discover what that is, and once you discover it, it might take more time to work on it and develop it, but it's there.
And once you do, your submission will be far more meaningful to the special dom or domme you give yourself to. Your submission will be truely desired and thus, the chemistry, and yes, the kinks, will be that much more satisfying- mutually.
And finally, just like us submissives are more than the sum of our kinks, more than a list of desires, so, too are the ones we submit to far, far more than just a hollow means of fulfilling them. We submit to a PERSON, with hopes, dreams, laughs, hobbies, interests, values, favorite books, secret fears, favorite dream vacation destinations, pet peeves, and favorite bands.
Just like us submissive men all have these things too. If you think you don't- you actually do; you just need to discover these things and cultivate them.
In a way, I'm posting this partly in response to a recent blog on here. I don't remember who it was, and probably wouldn't mention their name even if I did remember, but I felt like I could also relate to them because, like them, the feelings of wanting to submit, to experience the power at the hands of a dream dominant, is indeed very powerful. Believe me, I know this too. But if all you can share is how worthless and pathetic you are and how badly you want to submit, then that isn't enough. Maybe be your own dream dominant, whip and spank yourself into shape, and focus on the things that make YOU unique, and truely valuable rather than just pathetic.
That's all I got for now, see ya.