This is not intended to be "Wank fodder" or even "can't wank because I'm locked" fodder.
For those of you in cock-lock down; all I can say is, hang in there, and kudos to you and to your relationship, because it is a precious and beautiful thing.
I am not currently in "Cock Lock Down," but if I were, it would have to be for the right partner. One with whom I am intimately involved with on a deep, romantic basis, who would appreciate, deep down, the surrender I would be giving to her when I hand over the key to that cage.
I've seen many ads from "online mistresses" and such, offering chastity key holder services. To me, this utterly defeats the whole idea.
One should never be so cheap as to surrender the control of their cock to just any random stranger. ESPECIALLY one whom you are likely never to even meet face to face, let alone have any kind of emotional connection to.
When you really consider what you are doing when you hand over that key to your significant other, it becomes a powerful and wonderful thing.
When you turn over that key, you are telling your partner that you are exclusively theirs- and theirs alone. That you belong to them, soul and body, only in a deeper and more literal way than any vanilla couple.
You are telling them that you trust them completely.
You are telling them that you are willing to make personal sacrifices for them.
It is a sign of deep, humbling, and beautiful submission.
It is empowering to your partner, and deeply gratifying to them that you are willing to give them this power.
It is an act of devotion.
Most of all, It is an act of LOVE.
That is how it should be. I would agree that it is not for everyone or for every couple. But I would certainly never wear such a cage and then cheaply surrender the key to just anyone. They would need to be someone deeply special to me.
If you nonetheless want to experience what it is like to wear a chastity cage and go without masturbation or arousal, then my advice would be to buy one and be your own key-holder for a while. Get used to what works, and what fits, try out different types of cages for comfort. I myself would want one that would work with an active lifestyle, for example. Then when you find that someone and you are ready to hand over that key, you will already be fully prepared to do so.
So anyway that's all I have. See ya!