So this blog is about... BURP!
Allright, so with that out of the way... On to all seriousness.
(Hey man don't blame me, sometimes that works for people.)
I know all too well the disadvantages of being a submissive male. I won't waste time with that or dwell on it here. But I hope I can convey the positives. This won't be about kink by the way- yes I do enjoy kink but that's not the point of this post.
Being submissive means being, not only attentive to your partner's needs, but when your partner directs you, and commands you, it helps you to better know how to please them- and thus, the happier and more satisfied they will be. Teach me, tell me what to do Mistress- and I will obey. Were I dominant, I might make wrong assumptions and do everything wrong, leaving you unsatisfied, at best.
It means, taking an extra time to be thoughtful.
It means, being open to learning things (all kinds of things- insights, health tips, ways to solve math problems, new musical scales, philosophy and history) from my partner.
It means I can openly adore and worship my partner, even kneel at her feet and clean her boots, without her considering it cringy. Because it is an expression of love.
Even when receiving corporal punishment for a thoughtless mistake, it is still an expression of love.
Maybe I was always a bit shy around girls. Never know what to say, or the best way to approach them. Let her make the first move, and there can be no misunderstanding. Maybe I saw too many guys screw up by being too aggressive, or simply not communicate with their partner properly to meet her needs. Maybe that's why I prefer she communicate to me exactly what to do.
And maybe, it is because I believe it is better to give than to receive, and therefore take more satisfaction in my partner's pleasure than in my own.
And maybe I'm wrong about all of it, and just a confused guy trying to submit to life's experiences for better or worse.
