Never afraid to speak my mind

Eunoia​(sub female) - I read two different things here. As far as the bratty thing making his patience run thin.. as long as you’re up front and tell him that’s how you are then it shouldn’t be a problem because he knew beforehand. As far as the picture thing.. don’t show your pics to everyone. Few people here know what I look like and that’s because I get the same thing you’re talking about all the time. So if you have a nice conversation FIRST then the looks will only be the cherry on top :) good luck

rebeltoya​(sub female) - thanks . i don't show my face on here . i meant outside the cage .

Eunoia​(sub female) - I see. Well just know the right man will not only take your looks into consideration. If they’re anything less than the right one, move on. You will know when you’ve found **him** <3

JustGreenie - Be a mystery to him. Let him know the inside before introducing him to the outside. Put a little mystery in getting to know you completely before unveiling the prize.

albuka​(sub male) - Yes. I find that I want to know someone more and more of she is mysteries. Knowing that when she dose share pictures with me I am not the 100th person she shared them with. Makes me feel special that she trusts me enough to share.

OraclePollon​(sub female){NotYours} - Maybe someone gets inpatient with you, but on the other side, there are people getting bored with those of us who aren't outgoing or exhibitionary and that is a thought that plagues our mind. Try not to be enough or too much or anything for someone else. Silence that voice inside yourself and you cans Hine your best light.

As far as presenting. I am a recluse for a lot of those reasons, people who cant help but say you look amazing everytime I talk to them, get superficial really fast. But there are people out there who will see beyond it, we just only see the ones who say it, not the ones admiring from afar. Try and look beyond what is right in front of you. (Not saying you aren't. Just the voices we don't want to hear are always the loudest).

SageFlame​(sub female) - Places
Location
Events

Choose them in mind with the type of conversation you wish to have. If I were looking around these would be my choices:

-Sequoia Club
-Hiking meet ups with men and women
-Book stores and libraries
-Lectures offered by local colleges to the community
-Volunteering in community
- Live music venues ( quaint not concert)
- dog parks ( you can tell a lot about a person by how they interact with their pets)
-Stage theater auditions

Not that any of these would be to your liking. Just to give example of places, etc. Choose places that interest you. Choose events that cultivate you; conversation is more natural this way.

You can always find a guy at the gym but most wouldn't have conversation on their mind so . . .