Being a brat isn't just something you become. It's in you from the time you are born and gradually it develops with you as you get older. Don't get me wrong when I say there are doms when they walk into a room all the eyes of the submissives are on them without them saying a word. But there are some because of their egos and of their boasting they don't get subs who are not attracted to them. It's ok to show off from time to time but sometimes it can be too much. I admire a dom who says little and but just his ways and actions are worth millions. I am not attracted by what I see but by the way a dom carries a conversation. His confidence, love, and dedication is a key factor to my attraction to him. I despise a dom who thinks that the world revolves around him and feels that he has the right to judge another because he is the ladies' man. I think most men fail to realize not all women are attracted to vanity or to lustful ways but many rather have a decent conversation. I tell you this works wonders. Being too egocentric is never attractive. If I comment on your pic never take my comment to heart, I am just complimenting you. there are so many things to learn in the world of BDSM. Some things are better left unsaid ..........................
respectfully,
toya.