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Never afraid to speak my mind

The greatest fear one can have is not fitting in but the greats achievement is not giving a damn if you don't
3 years ago. June 16, 2021 at 7:39 PM

Being a brat isn't just something you become. It's in you from the time you are born and gradually it develops with you as you get older. Don't get me wrong when I say there are doms when they walk into a room all the eyes of the submissives are on them without them saying a word. But there are some because of their egos and of their boasting they don't get subs who are not attracted to them. It's ok to show off from time to time but sometimes it can be too much. I admire a dom who says little and but just his ways and actions are worth millions. I am not attracted by what I see but by the way a dom carries a conversation. His confidence, love, and dedication is a key factor to my attraction to him. I despise a dom who thinks that the world revolves around him and feels that he has the right to judge another because he is the ladies' man. I think most men fail to realize not all women are attracted to vanity or to lustful ways but many rather have a decent conversation. I tell you this works wonders. Being too egocentric is never attractive. If I comment on your pic never take my comment to heart, I am just complimenting you. there are so many things to learn in the world of BDSM. Some things are better left unsaid ..........................

 

 

 

respectfully,
toya.

AdamDragon​(dom male) - A very well spoken post. Sometimes ego gets in the way but some as you said, say little. And even sometimes those can be the ones you must beware of. Thanks for this post 🌹
3 years ago
albuka​(sub male) - I like this post allot. The world is already a hard place to live in then trying to fit everyone's ego into it.
In my life I try to be completely honest, understanding and kind. It seems that people take this as weakness. Especially in my profession.
In this environment telling the truth about my situation drives people away. My kindness pushes me to the friend only zone. But at least I can say in my heart. I have held back nothing and the people that are my friends really know who the real me is.
3 years ago

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