SLUT
Disparaging and Offensive. A sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way.
This a word I have always struggled with, a word that invariably has a negative connotation, a word reserved for not even bad girls, for dirty girls.
It’s just a word - four little letters - how could being called a SLUT hurt me in any way. In reality it can’t but, it does or should I say did. I wanted desperately to be Sir’s SLUT but I really struggled with this. Recently I read another post around the accronym of SLUT and it made me think and I mean genuinely think.
It’s a word that people use, who dont understand someone’s needs or wants or their lifestyle choices, to throw out as an insult, to put the other person down, to make themselves feel loftier and better about themselves, superior I think. Now the question is - are they better than me - just because I love sex, because I want to be spanked or flogged or restrained or because I want to be Sir’s SLUT - HELL NO!!!
NO THEY ARE NOT BETTER THAN ME.
They are scared and will probably never be truly free to be themselves, they will always be stuck in their little box, peering out at life passing them by. They may never realise this either which makes me feel sorry for them, sorry they don’t have the courage to seek out what makes them happy (this could be anything, not just related to kink) or to take the time to understand someone or something else that may just enlighten them. It’s ignorance and some people are happy to live there their whole life.
I have finally found a freedom through being Sir’s SLUT - I am able to express what I need and want and what I desire.
I Googled the acronym for SLUT and found
“Sweet Little Unforgettable Thing”
which is nice but not quite what I was going for. I found one other but didn’t like the U or T definition so updated it to suit me
“Sexually Liberated Unequalled Temptress”.
Then I thought I’m maybe not quite there yet - that could be my goal 😋 so I decided to make up a couple of my own, so depending on my mood I can choose who I want to be!!
“Super Loving Uniquely Talented”
“Sexy Lady Uncompromisingly True”