So I was having a chat with a friend and we were talking about how important communication was in a relationship - proper open honest communication. We both said how sexy we find that and it started me wondering ...... what is it about good, decent, open and honest communication that is a turn on for me?
For me there are quite a few different types of communication but, my main 4 are :
Verbal - I love when he uses words to reduce me to a wet puddle, he plays with my mind and takes me places - away from where I am - he transports me. I love when he is vulnerable and open and honest and tells me his feelings - it makes me feel loved more than he could know - that he could trust me enough to open up to me with these feelings that are intimate and private and part of his inner self - just between us.
Non verbal - now these can be a little harder to pick up on or sooo blatant it’s unreal!!! Personally I prefer blatant, sometimes I have a hard time picking up subtle cues - I think this is mainly due to me being horny and not thinking clearly!!! This could be when his hand grips my arm that little tighter - I feel the shiver and the throbbing start immediately- I know what’s coming. Or that look - you just catch his eye and boom - your there - right where he wants you and exactly where you want to be!!!
Visual - when I dress up - it’s as much for me as it is my Daddy. The thought of him aroused - by me - is a wonderful feeling. Our surroundings - sometimes they just don’t matter, other times they are the crux of the scenario - the back seat of a car, outside bent over the front of the van, a dungeon, the kitchen - it’s endless really.
Written - I love written - fantasy becomes entwined with reality, anything goes. Every detail laid out soo graphically for you to digest. To hear the dirty, depraved acts my Daddy is going to carry out when we next meet, to know what he is thinking. OH MY LORD!!!
