I would like to say that is my quote, but it is not. When I was sixteen a 21 year old redhead beauty seduced me. The quote is hers.
I was a wrestler in high school and she said she liked my muscles. I was not virgin, but I knew nothing about sex in the real sense and absolutely nothing about how to please a woman. She proceeded to teach me so many things I think it takes many men a lifetime to learn, if they learn it at all.
She introduced me to anal sex which at first was weird and then I came to realize just how hot and erotic it was. She taught me patience and to pace myself based on a woman’s response to whatever I was doing…to listen to “her music”. That music could be in the form of loud screams of pleasure, or the way her body moved like a musical instrument vibrates, her gentle whimpers, her sighs of exhalation or a very subtle growl from her soul.
At the time I did not know she had introduced me to a lifestyle, a lifestyle I would eventually embrace. There was no Internet, or cable TV, or any way of networking, so I thought for a while I was a weird sexual pervert in some respects.
I went on to have vanilla relationship and a marriage, but I never lost my desire for the kink. Then the Internet came along and allowed me to discover the world of BDSM. After my divorce I decided I was going all in and was going to enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest. It is what motivated me to build all the BDSM furniture in the playroom so I could offer a woman a very unique experience.
What that redhead taught me in that simple but profound quote has enhanced the quality of interactions with a woman and was one of the most valuable lessons I could have learned about how to please a woman so she could make the most beautiful "music".
