When you suggest trying some new things in the bedroom, your vanilla boyfriend looks very shy and goes for the same thing most guys think of .... the backdoor.
There is so much fun to be had, is that the best they can come up with?
I stand there and innocently ask 'which way round' .... its a genuine question.
I don't think he knew how to process that bit of information. 🤣
Anyway it takes a fair bit of patience... I don't think vanilla guys realise you can't just bash in the backdoor on a random Tuesday.
I wonder if this is an expectation regarding porn. I don't watch any, so I wouldn't really know but... when trying to find someone like minded and let a vanilla guy know.. there instantly thinking of some kind of scene from a porn film.
It doesn't work like that. You need to get to know someone's mind if you truly want to fuck with it in the best sort of way.
