I truly hope with all my heart, there will be less me too moments xxxx I know too many friends who have had issue, more than haven't, yet this isn't in the open yet its sooo common its awful, I hope that the next generation of women don't have this issue xxxx
So in a bid to be more open, I will share my experience or experiences … (this is nothing to do with my friends experiences)
my birth farther preferred a younger woman (just) to my mother... and other things I wont mention on here
my step farther preferred me to my mother.... (didn't get very far, still ripped the family apart)
my grandad was a violent alcoholic for many many years (sober now, unhealthy grief coping mechanism) That didn't really stop my nan from getting black and blue … or my uncle thrown into glass... yet my family blame my nan... idiot logic.
My last Dom started having flashbacks (ive had them they are awful but... almost ended up stabbing me while thinking I was being attached by his flashback yet threatening to kill himself as he was struggling to cope, it happens to men too)
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Finding out friends have been through similar issues, sucks as I can appreciate the pain it can cause, sending a hug to all the peeps who have shit going on.
One of the reasons I love BDSM is it gives opportunity for people to know what they are getting into and have open discussions.
(I wasn't going to put my experience up, it still gets me every so often but there is a light at the end of the tunnel)
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