Rose's Thorns.

A general pondering.

Dom, Daddy or Master?

2 years ago. January 12, 2022 at 12:15 AM

Dom - usually describes a top, the person who might be holding a cat o nine during fun times. Can come in a variety such as sensual, gentleman or even with sadistic tendencies.

Daddy - im not too familiar so will stick with what i know, treating the sub as a princess, less harsh more soft.

Master - what i say goes, end of conversion. We agreed limits, its not a limit so tough. This can be with gentlemen like things such as holding a door open or ordering dinner for you and choosing what you're eating.

DomOfDesire(dom male) - Hmmm 🤔 this is an interesting subject.
I think that one of the great things about D/s relationships (like vanilla relationships) is that every one can be (and should be) unique.
And so, while labels can be helpful in some limited ways, I think there is an awful lot of overlap between them and generalisations are problematic.
Some Daddies, for example, will be more sadistic than some Doms or Masters; some Doms will exercise broader, more detailed and stricter control than some Masters; some Masters could be “softer” than some Doms and Daddies; some Dominants - myself included - can and do enjoy varying how they treat/manage/care for their submissive to try to fulfil her kinks, needs and desires (as well as their own) and so on….
And, of course, Masters, Tops, DaddyDoms, Daddies are all Dominants….
So, I’m sure that what matters, far more than any labels, is the greatest possible shared understanding between the dominant and submissive person in the relationship regarding all aspects of their relationship (including of course: objectives, limits, roles and responsibilities; triggers, rules, rewards, punishments, etc ).
And, at all times, everything must be safe, sane and consensual.

2 years ago

You must be registered and signed in to comment

Register Sign in

rosethorn​(sub female)

Rose's Thorns.

Dom, Daddy or Master?

rosethorn(sub female)