Darlings. Loves.
Some of you wonderful doms and dommes out there, be you new or experienced? We need to talk. Briefly.
You see, for some reason, it would appear that some of you, while being native speakers of English, have mistaken yourselves for a verb. My dear ones, this is not so! You may take action and dominate someone. There are many great ways to dominate!
There is, however, no way to BE a dominate.
The term you are looking for is "dominant." Often, we use "dom" for short. You can say, "I am a dominant person." "I am a dom." "I am on the dominant side of the kink spectrum." " I am a dominant looking for a submissive."
You can also say "I am a true dominate," but you will be incorrect.
Friends don't let friends try to be verbs.
Much love,
-Ev
