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So me and my fiance want to go to a bdsm party he's been to a few this will be my first time and I'm scared he'll leave me for another sub he says he won't but my mind doesn't believe it and idk what to do or why I'm insecure about it and I wanna learn to be more dominant because I'm a switch but I'm an amateur dominant I wanna become better any advice
2 years ago. June 25, 2021 at 6:24 PM

Hi my name is princess and I need some advice my fiance and I wanna go to a bdsm party he's been to a few this will be my first time but I'm insecure and scared he'll leave me for another sub he says he won't but I'm scared he will and my brain is making me think he'll leave me. Also I'm an amateur dominant I wanna become better is there any tips anyone can give me p.s. I'm a switch

Likeavirgin​(sub female) - I understand insecurity....completely. it's a daily battle for me. That said, you have a choice - to work through your insecurities and get to the other side and grow ( plus get to have some fun!)or not. The choice is yours, don't live in fear. Best wishes💛
2 years ago
TalonCoMerc​(dom male) - These sorts of things happens in every bdsm relationship. Doubt always seems to come in but you cannot let it take hold. Communication is a big help and can do a great deal to ease some of the doubt and fear. You always have a choice and I know that your fiancé will do everything he can to make sure you are safe, comfortable and taken care of. I know this may sound a bit off coming from a Dominant but I try to do everything I can to communicate effectively as I can to ease any worries as well as make sure the Submissive is safe and comfortable.
2 years ago
acquiesced​(sub male) - Its the insecurity that can destroy a relationship. Hard to defend against whats in someones head.
2 years ago
acquiesced​(sub male) - Also, I am willing to bet you have another profile, and created this one (and this post) in secrecy from your Dom. He doesnt stand a chance. Look for 'This profile does not exist' soon
2 years ago

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