I enjoy jubilance. The word is of joy, happiness and triumph. So naturally I love a celebration party. I've tried most aspects of a good party and love them. It's not just about enjoying myself but others having great joy around me. Usually the best are of some personal victory or that of a friend. You shower the victor in favor and gifts. And in that you can express love.
One of my best friends had returned home from a long trip (a victory of sorts) and we decided (the core group and I) to throw him a welcome back party. It was a great night. More satisfying than fucking is compadre and jubilance.
I've never had a problem saying enough is enough. That might also have to do with my limits being a little bit further than some I've known. I don't know, maybe they wish to fit in or don't want to be goaded. But I believe everyone should be able to say enough. My friend (a bit of an alcoholic) could never. He was never particularly tolerant. Nor did he magically become a better person under the influence. He just really loves to drink.
Anyway it was his night. So we got all the things he enjoyed. So I got a female sub who got off in dp and talked to my buddy about the gift I got him. We were going to do a sort of victory lap at the end of the party.
Now drinking and eating can be a precarious situation to most on their best legs. But add singing, running, and fucking and well....
Hijinks ensued