BDSM is one of the most interesting relationships in the world. Enjoy it, but,
don’t rush into the dynamic if you are not ready
don’t get into the dynamic when you are broken, be healthy (body, mind, soul)
don’t expect a dom to save you, a dom is a human, not a Saint
don’t get into BDSM without knowing the red flags of a Dom
don’t get into BDSM if you don’t have basic understanding about the phsycology of a sub and Dom
don’t break the rules that you have committed
don’t disrespect your Dom
don’t give up the Dom or quit the dynamic too soon, communicate
don’t cling on the dynamic, when you know it’s time to let go
don’t stay in the dynamic if you know the Dom is not the right one for you
don’t be afraid that you will never meet better Dom if you left the existing not-for-you-Dom
don’t make assumption and judgment about what the Dom did, ask instead
don’t forget you still have right as a sub and safe word to protect yourself
don’t forget to love yourself