flitter'fly(sub female)

Thoughts From A New Me

I Am A Unicorn
I Am Uni
I Am Me

I Am But A Caterpillar
Born
And
Set Free

Thinking Myself
Dead
Untill I Am Born Again

I Am A Butterfly
I Have Wings
I Fly

I Am FlitterFly
I Am Flitter
I Am Me

As I Fly
I See
A Wicked World

I Slowly Die
And
Find Again
Me... :)

Reborn Again
Out Of The Ashes
I Rise

High High High
Into The Sky
And I See

I Am A Phenix
I Rise
I Live
I Am Set Free

I Am Me.. :)
I Am Me.. :)

BDSM

3 years ago. November 19, 2021 at 1:25 PM

Reality

Verses

Fantasy

So I was told this.

In your mind BDSM is Reality

But

In my mind BDSM is Fantasy

And I just can't seem to get this out of my head.

To me BDSM is a way of life. A decision to be more. One that goes deeper then what we see in the vanilla world.

I have said this ever since coming to thecage.

This lifestyle and the more I see. The deepness that this entails. Is what marriage was supposed to be.

Knowing Ones Self and knowing another better then they know themselves. The mind set. The all that we give to the other. The trust the security that we allow.

No This Is Not A Fantasy For Me

This is in fact Reality. Or at least I shore as hell hope so.

There has to be more that we give and take from one another then just games.

The reality is that yes we are open in our kink. Yes the what BDSM means to me, goes so far deeper then what most can fathom or see.

So I ask this.

Is BDSM Fantasy to you?

If so, how?

Or Is BDSM Reality for you?

If so, how?

Thank You

FlitterFly

Maxorde{Not lookin} - It is real to me… the feeling of calm as I slip into Dom mode and she responds physically is palpable.Yes. It’s real.

3 years ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Thank You
I feel that to, when I go into submission.
Still learning, Always learning.

3 years ago

Maxorde{Not lookin} - Absolutely! Learn always!

3 years ago

Sweet Ginger(sub female){⚓ } - You ask some deep questions girl. I feel it's both! Wait! Hear me out. It's fantasy if you have no desire to take it any further then your own imagination.

It's reality if you yearn for that special Dom or sub that can allow you to be fully who you desire to be. To let all your walls and hesitation wash away fir him and only him. I fall into this category.

3 years ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Yes
Well said
Thank You SG
You are correct it can be both or one or the other but I like to think it a lifestyle and not just kink or fantasy
I definitely feel the same in both parts
Kinda like good and bad right and wrong black and white
There is always a middle lineing and you can't have one without the other

3 years ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - The gray area can be the biggest most brilliant area achieved the middle of the rainbow so to speak hehe

3 years ago

Maxorde{Not lookin} - Well said!

3 years ago

alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - I'm sorry but you and max both stated something that just is lost on me.
" the slipping into Dom mode/ falling Iin submissive "

See that I part is lost on me. I am me Wolf's sub always there isnt a falling into the role. Even when we are apart I know what he expects of me . Just as he is always my dom, all no matter what he is doing he is looking after me and our best interest.

Even though this is true we are more then Dom and sub , for we are ppl first after all. we are a partnership where one makes the decision s . Even when I might look at things differently. I may and can say so and why. He will listen and may or may not take it into consideration while making his decision.

3 years ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - It's the part where you go deeper into that mind space that allows you to be almost translike as if you are in deep hypnosis but still know of the outside world yet your inner mind is at compleat and total bliss piece
A mental state of subspace

3 years ago

alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Well everyone is different just as all relationships/dynamic is different. I guess it boils dont to if one is in a relationship or dynamic.

Seeing the way I read what you are saying to start with is that you fall into submissive state ( almost as if not always in the submissive state. And then your explanation of it is how to me life just is . When you are with the true one for you . Yes there are ups and downs but even in the downs there is the bliss of knowing they are yours and you are their. Without a fear or doubt of losing them or anything else.

3 years ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Therr is the subspace that we carry always with us even when we are not with a said Dom
And then the sub space we go into when we find that said Dom
Like you said it is just there
Then there is the orgasum
Of goo g deeper that explodes during a mental subspace breakthrough best I know how to describe what I am talking about maybe Mr wolf might better be able to explane sweety
Have fun its like a light when it comes on you will be well hell

And thats a good thing I have this happen to me all the time
It's a part of me always learning and growing we all need to catch the missing piece for it to click for us individually its growth a learning prowess and beautiful to watch unfold and master

3 years ago

Maxorde{Not lookin} - As flitter said, it’s entering a different mind space, conscious of everything but reacting in a different my manner. Like you said, it just is. It’s very hard to explain for me. My sub is my sole focus. No worries. No stresses. No confusion. Just a pure, blissful peace and focus.

3 years ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Well put and yes very hard to explain

3 years ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Thank You Kindly
Mr. Maxord
A TRUE GENT

3 years ago

Maxorde{Not lookin} - You’re welcome! Thank you for the kind words.

3 years ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - You are welcome
A Rare And REAL True Dom
Thank You

3 years ago

Blondie(sub female){Collared} - Thank you for this great question. For me it is reality. There is a physical aspect of it when I do my tasks. I am really moving my body for my Sir. I am in a submissive mindset when I do them, but it isn't all in my head.

3 years ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - In Awww
MS. Blondie
Thank You
FlitterFly

3 years ago

alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Ughh ... I think we are just saying similar things and looking at thing a bit differently . I relieze that how I worded my reply was not understood well either. .

And just an fyi ...
Please dont call me "sweetie" .

You dont actually know me nor do you have that right in my book.

3 years ago

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