Reality
Verses
Fantasy
So I was told this.
In your mind BDSM is Reality
But
In my mind BDSM is Fantasy
And I just can't seem to get this out of my head.
To me BDSM is a way of life. A decision to be more. One that goes deeper then what we see in the vanilla world.
I have said this ever since coming to thecage.
This lifestyle and the more I see. The deepness that this entails. Is what marriage was supposed to be.
Knowing Ones Self and knowing another better then they know themselves. The mind set. The all that we give to the other. The trust the security that we allow.
No This Is Not A Fantasy For Me
This is in fact Reality. Or at least I shore as hell hope so.
There has to be more that we give and take from one another then just games.
The reality is that yes we are open in our kink. Yes the what BDSM means to me, goes so far deeper then what most can fathom or see.
So I ask this.
Is BDSM Fantasy to you?
If so, how?
Or Is BDSM Reality for you?
If so, how?
Thank You
FlitterFly