Being Open To Change...
And Trying New Things....
I have been thinking about all that I have learned ever since coming onto thecage.
With all the work, notes, searching on the web, and all the many, many people I have spoken with.
Especially at the beginning, so curious.
When first finding this place and all the people here. It was as if taking a fresh breath of air.
Hell, it still is.
One of the things in this lifestyle that I have since the beginning been drawn to is the Master / slave roles.
I believe that I have been drawn to this so much because I yern to not have to think, and just be.
To have absolutely no thought or worry.
Also, a dear friend of mine back in Tennessee, she is a service slave.
And well, like everything eles in this lifestyle. Once seeing real, live, people.
Seeing those people in their roles in the lifestyle is not as perfect and on point, as the books say.
And definitely not what most Masters you speak with will tell you. Lol
My friend is very outspoken, a lot like myself.
She is one of the most sincere, kindest, most loyal, loving women that I know.
Meeting this woman at a munch, getting to know her and her Master, being welcome to their home, spending time in and out of the vanilla world with her.
I was able to watch the interaction on a day to day.
Also, why I say this world is made to bend to everyday people and different dynamics.
It is not a one size fits all type of deal.
We make this our own. And in each dynamic, the rules change.
This has been an experience that has been sobering, to say the least.
Tells me a great deal, showes me a more in-depth view on the different dynamics and people who are in those dynamics.
Anyway, I only wanted to write here to tell a little about my story.
What I have found, seen, and have come to realize.
Hopeing that when hearing and learning this life.
That one never says that they will never. Finding that the word never, should not be a part of one's vocabulary.
We all change, and with change, we grow. Our eyes open to new things, new possibilities.
We see things through a different lens. And with that lens, you keep seeing change.
Not all is what you first think. The way we see certain aspects of this life changes like the seas of the ocean change.
Don't hold so tight to a thought of never.
If you are unable to change, how will you ever know if what you like and seek is not but what you refuse to be open to.
With each day that we open our eyes to something new, something different, we broden our chances of finding and securing a happiness that once was not open to us before.
Thank You
FlitterFly... :):):)
DawnRobin 🥰
