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1 year ago. November 30, 2022 at 10:20 AM

Although it is not confirmed... I believe I am going to be taking on a male pet/toy/sub... he is extremely eager and while I may be able to dom[me], I feel i might benefit from a mentor... so that my pet is properly taken care of, suiting his needs best. It is not going to be a full on D/s dynamic. He IS a sub but I will only keep him as a pet/toy...

 

Thoughts?

Literate Lycan​(dom male) - I think it’s very intelligent to seek either a mentor or even just a group of Dominants / Dommes you can talk with and learn from. And I might add even though others may do the Dominance thing their way, figure out what works best for you in your dynamic and your situation and make it your own. All the best.
1 year ago
RizzoKenickie​(sub female) - Thank you! I'm doing my own personal inventory right now. I dont want my busy schedule to be an issue ultimately causing him to feel lost in the shuffle.
1 year ago
SirJamesA​(dom male) - Well having a mentor when you first start out is always wise. Definitely nice to be able to get ideas and extra guidance when you aren't 100%sure about things.
You need to sit down and see what you both want out of the arrangement. How far you want to take things. What are his needs and your needs. Create building blocks so you both grow in the dynamic.
Completely agree with Literate you have to figure out what works best for you and make it your own. Everyone does things differently. Listen to advices given and work it around how it fits you and you pet/toy.
1 year ago
RizzoKenickie​(sub female) - Thanks. Im still in the "thinking about it" phase. This guy is alot of work and it seems like almost a wholeass dynamic. I have alot on my plate and I'd be doing him a disservice to take him on without taking that into account.
1 year ago

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