I've only been on this site for a short time (a few months I think) and I have some things to say.
1. This lifestyle is non judgemental. So stop with the what people should and shouldn't do! It's none of your business! If you want to give suggestions, that's different, but you have no right, sub or Dom, to tell people what they should and shouldn't do. Unless it goes against the lifestle mind you.
2. I've been in the chat room and it's ridiculous how a few certain people are so negative and bitch and moan and crticize about everything! That room is a way for people to socialize, get support when needed, and talk about life in general. If you dont have anything but negativity to bring, then get the fuck out and all you drama whores..get out as well.
3. I've read blogs and forums about random issues, most of which had helped me during my recovery, and I cannot believe the negative criticism that goes on. Who the fuck do you think you are. Who in the hell gave you the right to tell someone what is real and what isnt, what's gross and what isn't. If you want to give your opinion then start off with, "I appreciate you sharing, however its not for me" or something like that...or just dont say anything.
All of this drama and negativity needs to stop. We are criticized by vanillas, given weird looks and judged if we even mention the lifestyle we have chosen. We dont need this shit among our own. If you want to continue being negative and criticizing your own people then get off the site and create your own fucking site!
