Good Morning Lover Faces! 😘
Lately I have been spending way to much time in my own head. I guess there’s no better way for self reflection.
I spent so much of my life separating my “vanilla” life from my kink life. I am slowly learning they are one in the same, especially if I want to be truly happy.
I am learning that by not combining the two I am setting myself up for failure. All the work, honestly, sacrifice, dedication, transparency, and the forgiveness it takes to have a successful relationship is the same for the D/s relationship as well.
I have learned that my fear of asking questions (do not want to step on my Doms toes) is absolutely ludicrous. It has done nothing but lead me down a horrible path of men who claim to be something they are not. No longer will I cower and let someone decide my fate for me. I will ask away and challenge my Dom, if he refuses to answer then he is not worthy of my submission. I am not a doormat, I am a prized possession! 😉
❤️ Cia