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2 years ago. February 11, 2022 at 1:02 PM

A True Dom/me doesn't just take control of you or try to order you around. That's not Dominance. That's bullying. A True Dom/me is ALWAYS respectful. They will guide you, support you, instruct you, encourage you, help your and drive you to reach your full potential.

Not just in the bedroom, but in LIFE.

A True Dom/me will be the most supportive person you've ever met.
They'll challenge you and teach you things about yourself you've never knew.
They'll bring out the very best in you.

A True Submissive is his safe space. Emotions are expressed without judgement.
Concerns given and heard.
Understanding that H/She is human too.
His/Her feelings equally valid.
They can be held and precious those moments.
Pain is acknowledged.
Frustrations worked through.

That knowledge, that trust, sets B/both free.
In this balance, nothing can challenge Y/your commitment to the other.

It's the deepest and most intense relationship you could ever have.

Those that have lived this lifestyle know the journey, from beginning, middle, end. But how do you achieve this? One doesn't give the gift of submission freely and a Dominate doesn't just take on a submissive recklessly.

To be truly Dominated submissives gives over mind, body to the Dom/me.
The Dominates consistency, actions, commitment, show themselves. Bare and True. B/both are given freedom in a world unique to only them. Should anything try to separate them, waste to the world begins.

Through fire would I for my Daddy's soul. He in turn would pluck me from River Styx.

Just as every encounter is unique of itself so is Your Journey. "All who wander are not lost." Be at peace. Be good to the other. That's all we can do anymore...besides...the sex is AMAZING! Even when it's making love.

Atilla​(switch male){Owned} - Thank you for writing this. sometimes it is helpful to read verification of what we know deep down anyway 😊
2 years ago

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