Life in poly as told by me

For some unknown reason the first thing we all try is three ways right? Its not lost on me all the posts i see or adds are for kinks involving more and more people. I my self am not kink shaming at all im simply stating what i did and noticed. Long before i was ploy lets call it 19 years old me and my friend would share girls no clue why and where this came from but it happened often and wed even lie for each other. My first experience with this was in my buddy's basement. She liked it so much she showed up to my moms house a week later and blew me a few times. Later on during my first marriage my best friend and i again had a close encounter. Didn't go the way i thought it should. See my first wife was supposed ti bang me and my best friend and maybe this random girl (who i was secretly with and later became my second wife and yes im aware im a train wreck) so its new years eve were all drinking like 5 or 6 ot us. Me my two life long friends his wife my wife and gf. My best friends wife goes to bed she always hated us for good reason honestly. The night stumbled on and my other best friend and gf go out to smoke. Leave me my wife and other buddy at his kitchen table shooting the shit. Eventually we all realize what gives? Sure enough they was in the garage fuckingNow only me him and the girl whos riding him even knew i was dating her....i felt really turned on but had to pretend to be mad cause what gives? I wanted to play too my wife at the time was super turned on but thought i was disappointed. Later that week me and my wife and soon to be wife fucked and hung out for a month until my first marriage ended of course...So in my second marriage we played with another girl once and my second wife was too jealous. Eventually i caught her cheating a bunch and had a solution...lets have another three way with dudes? Smh bating a 1000 i dialed up Craigslist and found a Puerto Rican friend it went really well I went to the bathroom after we've been drinking and talking for about an hour and when I came out she was blowing him so we tagged in my life and he left and I've been daydreaming of that incident ever since first time I've ever openly talked about it but it was probably the hottest thing I've ever done. Couple months later on St Patrick's day we met my friend Robert who I eventually would have all kinds of fun with and he fucked her at the bar in his truck in my bed on top of me it was an interesting time. And unfortunately this all started leading to a downward spiral we broke up about a year later as we were making up my idea was why not? So I eventually took her to my best friend's house who is now divorced and me him and my other two friends tag teamed her which didn't help our relationship sadly but it was a good time and a really good way to wrap that whole relationship up. Me and the guys used his house as a bachelor pad had 4 more three ways and 4 ways until eventually he found his wife whom was our last 3 way. (Still married to her today and having a blast he is) my 3rd marriage in the dating stages started with a three way my current platonic wife at the time was all kinds of fun and game. We met a friend and they could both squirt and well we left that hotel very very wet and dirty. Couple years later wed jump into ploy and had alot of three ways in the ploy life and a few more couples and gangbangs. And two large ones that stand out the one on Mother's Day was very interesting when we had about four people show up it was snowing was a really good time I'm glad it went as well as it did but it's always interesting to see who's willing to go to them. The very last one was the first all black one and only one and when we learned that no matter how well you clean something over 8 in is going to reach the bottom and you might still have a mess. Oh i miss these days even though they were hetic