You know what's fun? Getting attention is fun. I certainly love it.
And yeah I know
Submissive Loves Attention!: More at 11!
News to nobody. But you know there's lots of different kinds of attention.
There's the focused kind when being tied up.
The sort of absent minded head pets when curled up by your Doms feet
The "Here's your reward for being a good girl" kind
And the "what should I do with you?" kind (Usually after a nice game of: Sure you can spank me, but you have to catch me first!)
I could go on, but there's a variety I'd like to talk more specifically about. The indirect kind of attention. Where it almost seems like you're not actually getting any. Anyone else get what I'm talking about? Where you're doing something hot or attention grabby, and your Dom is doing something else. Very pointedly doing something else. For example they're reading, but you realize they've been on the same page for far too long now. And it's obvious they're aware of you, but you know better than to point that out, because then the game is over. Because it's only fun if you can get a reaction without having to say something like "I know your watching."
Just something I've been thinking about ever since the last time I decided to give Sir a blow job while he was playing a game, and he continued to play as if I wasn't there. (Until he died in game, someone virtual high five me I felt very accomplished.)
I have a difficult time articulating why, but I really enjoy this sort of non-attention.
