Rolled for seduction, Now what?

So normally when I disappear for a bit it's because I get distracted or I'm just bad at maintaining a web presence. I once had someone hack my twitter and post Ray-ban ads for a week before I noticed. This time though I haven't been forgetting I've been actively choosing not to blog or participate. It all started because I finally got my procedure! (the snip) which I was pretty pumped about but it put me out for a little bit and then one thing after another we just weren't focussing on our kink life or much of anything. I slowly let things build up and stopped most of my hobbies. Now at this point, I want to point out this is not meant to be a pity party. We're all going through shit right now but I feel as if I learned something the past few months especially as life kept piling on and things are starting to improve. Kink like many hobbies and positives in life is not just a thing we do for fun or to connect but in a sense is a practice. I'll be the first to say when it comes to Kink I am very much a novice just blundering through the world. And the point of practice is to improve. And I don't know when it started but I stopped looking at it as something to improve at and allowed my self to stagnate. And you know That's kinda the thing right now. We're all expending so much energy trying to cope with the weird world we currently live in and it's important at least for me to attend to these practices to keep myself healthy. And Kink for me is an important part of my relationship and in its own way a part of my identity. So I'm going to try and nurture it a bit more and practice. So I'm giving myself a challenge to practice my knots and ties for 7 days. My kitten is a very eager assistant and I'm excited to start pushing my limits again and being more intentional about kink. And hopefully blogging more as well.