Sometimes I’ll get along with doms on here, and we’ll move to discord and they put in -2 effort. I have to be the one to reach out, and all I get are excuses and shitty responses (sometimes not at all). I’m not at all pushy nor clingy during these stages so I know it’s not a /me/ thing. What the hell? Are you not looking for a sub? It’s the same doms that say, “I’ve been trying to find a partner for years and it hasn’t worked out.” Yeah— probably because you respond like you’re a WALL.
then, there’s the doms I’ve come across that “want to get to know you” but also, “can I see your body, so I can see your body type?” What in the hell? I’m sorry, you call yourself a dom with social skills like that? How about you ask my favorite color? My favorite, I don’t know, animal? But yeah, okay. You want to see my naked ass just for science and good sportmenship. I even had a dom pressure me into listening to him jack off. Grossss. At least be hot if you want to do that, jeez.
My god it drives me insane guys!
