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TopekaDom​(dom male) - But at least guys like that make some of us look better 😎

Zoneinlingo​(neither female) - They ask to chat on another site. He said he really wanted to get to know me. I then ask them if they are going to flirt or ask for inappropriate pics. They say no. Ok so they didn't do either of those two things but I was already getting red flags from the things he was asking me. First off what my kinks were and how often I masturbated. Ok let's just forget to know each other first geeeez.
I understand completely what you are frustrated about. Lol

friendlyfire​(masochist female) - It honestly amazes me how many guys here think we're just on-demand for them. Like I don't have 8 other guys asking for pics and wanking off in my DM's. Please. I think a lot of them have porn and cage open at the same time and get their hands crossed. I mean their screens.

Tarasub​(sub female) - This is so true I’m so thankful I got a Daddy who understands patience, unlike some of the guys here. Subs really do need a break.

SubmissiveLidy​(sub female) - Thank you for sharing, I couldn't agree more.

I get so many messages from men claiming to be Dominants that are one line long and usually along the lines of- I'm looking for a sub, I think you sound perfect for me, I am the Dom you're looking for!

Oh- yes- of course- you're absolutely right! How silly of me to put in my profile, not ready for a new dynamic, when clearly, I should be with you!

Then I get harassed for 'ignoring them'.

You are all amazing and awesome, and I am so thankful to finally have found a community I feel confident and safe to have a voice in xx

amalthea​(sub female) - I am starting to have fun and feel more and more empowered. No alpha doms and no man babies. Nope.

Ive had some be very respectful though.

PandaGirl​(sub female) - I have as well. So I know it’s not all D/M types. But these ones sure make me shake my head and laugh.