So I was chatting online to this guy who claimed to be a dominant. Within our first 2 (very brief) messaging conversations he:
- Provided me with his list of 164 commandments that I was to follow
- Showed me a photo of toys he had already purchased for me
- Set up our life plan for mixing vanilla and the kink lifestyle
- told me that I’m his 100% focus now
- Sent me an unsolicited ? pic
- demanded that I provide him with my calendar and give him 100% access to him on certain days of the week
I’m grateful to the people I’ve met and experiences I’ve had to know that I immediately had to block him (after keeping documentation of all of this including the outside research I had done on who he was just in case I needed it in the future if he ever found me on another site). Totally creepy behavior.
Just a reminder to always do your homework and keep safe out there. Never give personal or private information until trust has been established and vetting has taken place.
I may not have found my person, but I absolutely 100% know who are not my people.