How Do You Define Your self
Who is the person In side you how deep do you know who you are
What Lengths do you go to find out about your own self how deep you look inside your self there say it only happens when Tragedy hits or you wake up to your own nightmare or you hit rock bottom
But I ask a sub to write her own thoughts 💭 down in a Journal to Discover who she is and what’s going on inside her own mind
Self Reflecting on what’s going on in your own life is so good so you can make the right Decisions it keeps the Demons at bay
We all talking about what good for the body and what food we should be putting and what not so much of we should put in
But who talks about food for the mind What should Doms be putting in your mind to keep you safe and well
What should there be doing to taking your well-being to a high Level
It funny 😄 on how many say there want a Master on there profile
But do there ready know what one is and how do you know one when you come across one ??
What’s the big difference between a Dom and a Master I ask you ??
I was Diagnosed with a Illness that will take me to hospital not knowing the out come till after the Operation
It could kill me for all I know but that not the story want to talk about here
But it make me think more about me and what have I got out of my own life and what do I want to leave behind for me to say I lived my life the way I wanted to and to give my insight to BDSM and what’s it taught me in many years as a Dom/Master and Daddy to some wonderful subs and how my life had changed with each Encounter
It’s about the who and what makes me a deep thinker and who we all are do we look close in who we are
So deep into our own life’s or of our own thoughts 💭
What makes you different from the rest of us
What story you hold what makes You stand out from a crowd
What tells me you are a sub or Dom or what your Status says
As I bern blessed to talk to hundreds of people in
This world about million Different topics what Fascinate them
Ofcouse my favourite topic is BDSM and I will gladly sit down and talk about it to anyone who has a open mind
We talk a lot about minds
Power exchange
Letting go of the mind
Silence of the mind
Mind fucks
And Surrender of the mind
And how to get inside a mind
But the big picture is what about your mind what in it what pictures does it hold what stories does it say about you
To no you to to know your mind
I find so many have close minds to Certain topics or are we just ti scerd ti talk about them noting wrong in been Scared
It could be if anything
But with out facing the fear it will always beat you down
I say the mind is the fear of not been able to let go of what is going on side of my your head
And so many come to BDSM to beat the fear of what’s holding them back
So what is BDSM to you what holds you back why do you want a Dom
When you know your own self what is missing
The fear of what going on inside your own head
We have them and at one point in our own life’s we will face them
Why was BDSM look Upon as a way to heal our selfs our minds our souls and to better our selfs as humans I ask my self when most only look at it as kink or sex with kink thrown in
I was asked what do I want to leave behind for my kids
By people who are getting into BDSM lifestyle can make a difference out look in life if you know what the true BDSM looks like and follow it how it should be set out on what’s the true meaning of BDSM was Truly Designed for to work on the mind and soul and Spirit of somebody
Not as to have kink sex or to flash you body about the older I got the more I see inside my self or what my mind is for
BDSM has giving me the best out look on life as it shows me on
How to be a gentleman
It shows me on how to treat a lady
How to Communicate
How to read a woman’s mind
It help me understand my self as a person
The things I do and why I do them
How to stand on
To stand own two feet
To take knock backs
To overcome all Obstacles
But most of all to understand a sub
To know how to get inside her mind
The art of Seduction
You can find out so much more of what I know in my writings and in my group
The more Knowledge you take on board the more wise you become and the more help you can give to people
It’s crazy on what some people will think and try to make you think what BDSM is and if anyone thinks it
And the stories of the nightmares what some subs have to go through with fake Doms
Only makes you wonder where the hell is the training gone on both sides
Of the Fence